I'm losing my mind. I have a high needs baby.. She is never happy! Nothing is good enough. She wants to be held constantly!! And even when I hold her it's not enough.. She still will have to have the paci.. Or not have the paci.. She doesn't even know what she wants really. It's so hard. I wish I wasn't saying this but I'm regretting my choice to be a mom a bit. Don't think I'm cut out for this. And what makes it worse is I don't get a break.. I'm single
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It may be colic like @tiffrae said but you can't be too sure make an appointment let the dr know what's going on but don't be too hard on yourself I felt that way with my son for awhile but turns out he had reflux and on top of that was a bit spoiled and use to someone holding him it was very overwhelming at times but believe me it's well worth it and you'll be able to go back to work just have to determine the cause of her crying and constant screaming and go from there don't give up God made us women equipped and strong enough to be mothers so you can do this and you're stronger than you know
She is still so young and needs reassurance! She got ripped out of her home (the womb) so quickly it can take some time to adjust. I promise it will get better. Baby wearing will help so much cause your hands will be free and she'll still feel secure
look into baby wearing, that way you can still do things.... also see if you can find a sitter every once in awhile even if it's just a trip to the store alone you need the time to yourself
Constant need to be held, keeping her busy. She isn't amused at all by swings, play mats, mobiles, constant need to suck on something, has to be held to fall asleep and once I put her down she screams... I pretty much sleep sitting up holding her so she can sleep. Makes doing anything but caring for her extremely difficult.. I can barely eat or use the bathroom. I have no idea how I'm going back to work. @dlove2016
sounds like she's colic. look up colic massage and try some on her. being a ftm is rough and on top of that your a single mom. A lot of mom's think they are not cut out to be one but turn out to be the best ones.
What makes her high needs if you don't mind me asking?
my baby daddy's ex wife works at the hospital I'm having my daughter she is just a cleaning lady she tell me they let her move the babies around I'm scared this women will take my baby she even tells me if I have my baby early she could see her ever day .. my doctor only delivers at this hospital I don't know what to do . this is why I don't want to have my baby early ..
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So I'm having some late pregnancy worries... What if cant comfort her? What if I don't know why shes crying? Like say we're out and shes screaming and I just don't know what she wants!! That thought scares the shit out of me!
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Ladies im freaking out right now!! I passed a huge blood clot and it's looks like there might be something else in my blood clot and I'm thinking I had a miscarriage somehow even though I'm on nexplanon. I have a picture but I don't want to post it due to it being really gross. I have no idea what I'm looking at
try giving her gripe water