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canaryblu
Courtney·Мама сына (11 лет)
Help. I have a two year old with and I am pregnant by the same man. He refuses to help me financially. I told him I will take him to court and he said he will take 50% custody from me because he can afford a lawyer and I cannot. I recently lost my job but am looking for a new one. But he is right I can't afford a lawyer. My two year old barely sees him in the first place so him having 50% custody makes no sense to me. I'm afraid of him. He also told me that if I ever take him to court he will try to plant drugs in my car so I get arrested and look like a drug addict. I am at my wits end. I need financial help but I'm too afraid to put him on papers. Any thoughts? What should I do?
23.05.2016
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lorraine2014
they wont give him 50 knowing he has a 2 yr old and doesnt really see him. if he cant prove ur a piece of shit hes just gonna look like garbage tryna run from child support. ducument everything. he still has to pay. file for it now. fuk what he says. just make sure ur shit dont stink.
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sydneyh
Syd·Мама сына (8 лет)
Document anything and everything he says. Being able to show proof of what's going on will help you out. He's trying to scary you with the 50% thing. If he works that much I doubt he is willing to cut back his hr or pay for childcare. The packet is only like $25 at the court house in Clearwater and you fill it all out and you go to partner court And make a parent plan And If that doesn't work out then you go to court court. They want to make it as civil as possible. But if you have things documented it will help. Don't play into his games or fight with him because he might document stuff as well. You and I are very close like may be 30 min apart so if you ever need to talk or need help with anything I'm more then happy. I know my 2 year old would be happy as well. Best of luck. @canaryblu
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kenitra
Kenitra·Мама сына (8 лет)
@canaryblu That's also not how it works in Florida. It's a percentage of income that calculates the amount of child support that's owed. If he makes more $ than you, he will owe child support. You can find the calculators and paperwork on whichever county website. Just search for child support calculation hillsborough county (or whichever county you are in). It's right on there county clerk website.
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mimimommyof2
Mimi·Мама дочки (10 лет)
Ok great well you're looking good idk how things work where you live but I know here child support is mandatory and even if you can't afford one will be assigned to you
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mommyofcohenjayceandmatthew
Courtney Warner·Мама троих детей
Legal aid
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kimberkatherine
Kimber miller·Мама сына (9 лет)
Take him to court and tell them everything he said. Right now you're playing right into his hands. Don't lay down and take that! Fight back, take him to court. If you can't afford a lawyer, the courts can appoint one for you. Or you could look for a lawyer that does pro Bono work.
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canaryblu
Courtney·Мама сына (11 лет)
He told me that he wants 50% custody so he won't have to pay me a dime... But not really because he wants his child. He works 6 days a week so he wouldn't even be home to see him if he got 50%. @kenitra
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canaryblu
Courtney·Мама сына (11 лет)
No Ive never done any drugs at all and I yes I have have proof of when I last worked. I don't know if text messages are proof but I have messages between us about him not visiting. @mimiz
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smb_mommy
BANNED - Stephanie Bullins·Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
If you go to court & take out child support then they may be able to find a lawyer for you . Lawyers will work with you on payments (don't worry about that ) but if he wanna throw that mess up then tell him to try you & see what happens bc if he has any type of background then he ain't getting shit but weekends lol
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sherrynygirl
record him talking shit, Every state has free legal aid lawyers , I helped my friend get a lawyer for free and away from her abusive husband to her and her kids, check your state s legal aid office,*have a better day*
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kenitra
Kenitra·Мама сына (8 лет)
In Florida, the father is automatically granted 50% custody (unless either parent agrees to less time). You don't need an attorney for that. And he is also required to pay child support. If he doesn't, they will take it out of his paycheck. You need the $ to support your child, get it! And if he wants to be a part of the child's life then he should be. Sounds more like he is trying to scare you though. It's almost impossible, even in bad circumstances, to get a judge to agree to less custody for either parent.
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mimimommyof2
Mimi·Мама дочки (10 лет)
1. Do you do drugs? 2. Do you have proof of when you last worked? / job applications you filled? 3. Do you have proof he doesn't visit?
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