@harranmommy, @kaidensmommy thanks ladies! :)

@cubanese, I am terrified of not making it to the hospital! /:

@mareesan, that's what I'm scared of!

You would know when you start feeling cramps(contractions). The feeling is very similar to menstrual cramps. At least that's how it was for me. But it was very bearable so I didn't think I was in labor until I went to my apt and I was already 4cm and in active labor.

If your having contractions your entire belly will get really tight and hard. Even if you can't feel it you can see it.

i would just be more scared because of giving birth at home... and not with medical attention surrounding me not the pain