Really hate my mother in law....comes over and starts bitching cause our friends come over and sit and we didn't have anything cleaned and she starts bitching cause there is no where to sit and then wants her daughter to feed my son I'm like really gonna come to my house and start bitching I can't even stand to even look at her now really can't stand her daughter.
@mw1620, oh screw that! Honestly I would cut myself off from her for a few days. You don't need that, love. She needs to grow the hell up. And your husband hopefully will understand. You have so much going on and you're going to be really busy and she's taking up way too much time with her drama
@missliss, she already said were keeping the baby away from here because the day we came home she got all pissed off because we had to go to my moms to pick my girls and let the rest of my family meet my son and she's like well why do u all have to go why can't she stay home and you go get the girls I was like really because my family wants to meet him and I haven't seen my girls in a few days and she's like really this is how it's going to be ur not gonna stop over at my house ur gonna go straight to her mom's we've invited her over to my parents house but she dosent like my family and her and her daughter are always yelling at my kids when they are over when they are just tryin to play when they were over today his sister kept yelling at my girls when they were just playong and the whole reason why they came over was for his sister to hold him his mom has only held him a few times and his sister is always wanting to hold him when they came up to the hospital my grandma who has a broken arm was sitting in the spot that she was and she wanted her to move so she could sit there I was like are u kidding me
@mw1620, on a good note if your husband is aggravated that's a really good sign. You should talk to her and tell her that her actions are stressing you out and that you need to focus on the baby, and that she is taking away your focus, and if it continues she will have to stay out of the baby's life until you're ready. Give her a choice so she can't turn it on you. That way she can't say you're keeping the baby from her. She sounds very clingy and controlling. Not ok.
@missliss, yea that's what I said we told her not to come up till the day after and she came up while I was in labor and was like this is what I came up here for is to sit in the waiting room and all this then my mom left and came back and 14 year old sister was like we were here first so why is her mom going back and all that and my husband looked at them and was like she was here first but she went home to get the other kids off the bus and fix dinner and all that and then the next day I didn't even know they were coming up and she only stayed for like a few min and got mad when I refused to breast feed in front of her daughter and she's just been a bitch ever since like it took all I had today not to go off on her cause she was bitching abiut everything even Facebook cause I won't tag her in my pictures like she's been watching my Facebook and liking everything and wanting to be tagged in all the pictures like it's freaking crazy and my husband is getting aggervated cause she's doing it and I've been tryin to keep my mouth shut so we don't fight about it
@mw1620, that is so ridiculous! It's YOUR child, your choice. Period. My mom is going to be with me all the time once Olivia comes, but his mom won't because of her choices. I know she's going to be pissy but I don't care at all. I am not a fan of MIL's
@missliss, yea she didn't start this till I had him it all started cause I wouldn't kick my mom out of the delivery room so she could come ib
Girl I hear you, every fight in my marriage is about my mother in law. Literally.
Tell her you need rest and to come back another day. maybe next month lol
@ashsloan, @darianweaver @maybaby2016 she's been a bitch since my son has been born on momday
Tell her if she's unhappy with your home or how you live your life, she is welcome to leave.
@missliss, yes she is my husband is talking about moving out of state now to get away from her abd everything