So my SO thinks it's weird that I want to wait to have kids first to get married. I'm already committed to him and he's committed to me. I want to have my kids in my wedding. I want to have my daughter as my flower girl and my son as a ring bearer and be pregnant with our third in the wedding. I know it's no where near traditional and my family may not agree but this is what I want for me and my family and our future.