So I go into see my ob/gyn on Tuesday. Go ask about a laparoscopic to check my endometrium for endometriosis...
And sad to ask about birth control...
What kind of BC do you think is best? My MIL has made it come down to this.. I've tried explaining to her I'm against it and it's against my religion and she still doesn't even care about that... I'll be the first one in my family to even get put on it... And it makes me feel like a terrible person...
Exactly what I'm saying..... You need to sit down NOW and revisit it. Maybe he wants to wait because you're still living with his mom.....
I'm not forcing anything on him, I told him since the beginning if he was sure about it. But now he doesn't.. @dcb012
Then I would have a serious conversation about it.... If he wants to wait I would wait.... If you force it he could resent you and leave you....
Well it was his idea in the first place.. @dcb012 so we talked about it and I agreed to it but now with his mom trying to get in the way he doesn't want to anymore.. He just wants to wait it off..
Just wait a while until you get your own place. Then go humping crazy. lol
If you're not on the same page about ttc you could potentially be out a place to live and have no SO.... You may want to have an honest talk with him...
I just need to ask him a bunch of questions about all this stuff. @ashsloan I'm tired of Aunt Flo making my life miserable..
6 months isn't a long time in the ttc world as it can take a healthy couple a year on average to conceive.
I try tellin him that too.. But since she's acting the way she is, even he now thinks I should get it and for us to wait.. After he gets me all excited that he wanted a child.. But after 6 months and still nothing, I have little to no hope anymore..
my Dr gave me crap cause my husband and I decided not bc after the birth of our baby. I didn't do well on anything and my body rejected it withing a year. been on everything. so I got a diaphragm to ease her mind and I just don't use it.
Well like I said she can't legally force you to do that so she is kind of shit out of luck
@whiteowlmamma, yeah but she isn't your mother, you're an adult, and you choose what happens in your body, not her.
I live in her house she says.. I try talking to her about it and she just gets mad about it @ashsloan
@whiteowlmamma, it's a plastic silicone cup that covers your cervix to prevent sperm getting up there. I don't use it though. to much hassle to get it in