I'm going to explain my entire situation. and you guys tell me what you would do. because I am at a loss and I haven't…
I'm going to explain my entire situation. and you guys tell me what you would do. because I am at a loss and I haven't felt this depressed in a while.
I live with my grandparents on my dad's side. they are very extremely judgmental people. once they get something in their heads there's no changing their minds. at all. even if you show them proof they are wrong. my fiance was living here with me. working a full time job and we were sharing my food stamps with everyone. my fiance was not lazy at all. I took him to work at 5 am every morning. they decided to kick him out. so now he lives two hours away from me in Shreveport where it's nearly impossible to find a good reliable job. now my family won't even let him stay here with me for a week when the baby comes. a single week. and I have no friends he could stay with either. we have no money. I can't even work anymore because I feel so bad constantly. I'm probably going to lose my car cause I can't pay for it. I don't know what to do.
R🐘·
Мама сына-младенца
I'd move in with him and save up enough money to move somewhere better!
Justine Kim·
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why did they kick him out? :(
Sarah·
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@justine_kim I have no.idea
Sarah·
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@henrysmommy he is living with two friends in a one bedroom trailer house. there's no room for me.
R🐘·
Мама сына-младенца
You can't afford a trailer together?
Sarah·
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@henrysmommy he doesn't have a job at the moment. and I can't work. so no not right now.
Victoriaa Harris·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
What about his family @lovely_girl211
Sarah·
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@tnmomof.3 his mom is constantly broke. and not very reliable.
Victoriaa Harris·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
He doesn't have other family @lovely_girl211
Sarah·
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@tnmomof.3 it's complicated. his dad has never been involved with him. neither has his sister. so basically all there is is his mom and step dad.
R🐘·
Мама сына-младенца
That's a tough situation... Honestly, I would consider an open adoption.
Adrianna·
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Looking at the situation at a whole it looks like he'll be missing lot of time with baby & you. Even if he has a car he doesn't have the gas money to drive back & worth without due to him not working at the moment and the amount of driving he would have to do is ridiculous anyways. It looks to me like you'll have play the role of a single mother for now into you guys can live together or whatever if you guys don't or can't want to stay with his mom.
Brittney·
that girl told you to give your child up for adoption lol! i didnt see one tine where you said you were unable to take care of. your child!
Lacy·
Мама подростка
find section 8 apartments in your area it will go off income you can live together as long as neither of you have felony records and you have your own space with no more judgmental overbearing negativity.
Sarah·
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@no2after16yrs I've tried. places like that in my area have up to a two year waiting list.
Lacy·
Мама подростка
you can get moved up the list with certain conditions such as being homeless or getting kicked out or evicted being in danger for your mental and physical health also don't give up apply and bug the hell out of the office manager to the point they won't turn you down.
Lacy·
Мама подростка
this is my 2nd baby and my 2nd time living in section 8 I harassed the manager to the point she knew me by my voice
kaye·
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omg @lovely_girl211 are you a rad girl? I 5hink I saw ur post earlier
Sarah·
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@no2after16yrs thanks I'll try that
nicolemarlena·
Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
If you stay in a homeless shelter and give proof that you are there to the housing they will bump you up on the list. Some even help get you a job a car and an apt. I did it with my first when I was 18. I had a place to stay but I needed my own place since I was living with his dad's family. He could also try a temp job they usually pay weekly and just get a hotel room with all the amenities you need til yall can get on your feet. I had to do that too but don't give up I have been there and it will all work out. Praying for you and your family.
Sarah·
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@nicolemarlena thank you. I'll definitely keep that in mind.