I'm going to explain my entire situation. and you guys tell me what you would do. because I am at a loss and I haven't felt this depressed in a while.
I live with my grandparents on my dad's side. they are very extremely judgmental people. once they get something in their heads there's no changing their minds. at all. even if you show them proof they are wrong. my fiance was living here with me. working a full time job and we were sharing my food stamps with everyone. my fiance was not lazy at all. I took him to work at 5 am every morning. they decided to kick him out. so now he lives two hours away from me in Shreveport where it's nearly impossible to find a good reliable job. now my family won't even let him stay here with me for a week when the baby comes. a single week. and I have no friends he could stay with either. we have no money. I can't even work anymore because I feel so bad constantly. I'm probably going to lose my car cause I can't pay for it. I don't know what to do.
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If you stay in a homeless shelter and give proof that you are there to the housing they will bump you up on the list. Some even help get you a job a car and an apt. I did it with my first when I was 18. I had a place to stay but I needed my own place since I was living with his dad's family. He could also try a temp job they usually pay weekly and just get a hotel room with all the amenities you need til yall can get on your feet. I had to do that too but don't give up I have been there and it will all work out. Praying for you and your family.
omg @lovely_girl211 are you a rad girl? I 5hink I saw ur post earlier
this is my 2nd baby and my 2nd time living in section 8 I harassed the manager to the point she knew me by my voice
you can get moved up the list with certain conditions such as being homeless or getting kicked out or evicted being in danger for your mental and physical health also don't give up apply and bug the hell out of the office manager to the point they won't turn you down.
@no2after16yrs I've tried. places like that in my area have up to a two year waiting list.
find section 8 apartments in your area it will go off income you can live together as long as neither of you have felony records and you have your own space with no more judgmental overbearing negativity.
that girl told you to give your child up for adoption lol! i didnt see one tine where you said you were unable to take care of. your child!
Looking at the situation at a whole it looks like he'll be missing lot of time with baby & you. Even if he has a car he doesn't have the gas money to drive back & worth without due to him not working at the moment and the amount of driving he would have to do is ridiculous anyways. It looks to me like you'll have play the role of a single mother for now into you guys can live together or whatever if you guys don't or can't want to stay with his mom.
That's a tough situation... Honestly, I would consider an open adoption.
@tnmomof.3 it's complicated. his dad has never been involved with him. neither has his sister. so basically all there is is his mom and step dad.
He doesn't have other family @lovely_girl211
@tnmomof.3 his mom is constantly broke. and not very reliable.
@henrysmommy he doesn't have a job at the moment. and I can't work. so no not right now.
@henrysmommy he is living with two friends in a one bedroom trailer house. there's no room for me.
I'd move in with him and save up enough money to move somewhere better!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Hey ladies. Any of you interested in a stay at home job to be home with your beautiful babies? I found something thats helping me be able to stay home with my babygirl once she gets here. ❤
I guess sharing my personal info on here means having it used against me in a personal disagreement yes I was raped and no you have no right to use my daughter against me as a personal jab
Creeped out!
A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped ou...
@nicolemarlena thank you. I'll definitely keep that in mind.