Ugh I need to vent. Prepare for TMI but this has been an ongoing frustration for a few months.
Before my husband and I got pregnant I was always having hormonal highs and lows and my libido was often lower than I wanted it to be. He always wanted to have sex or be sexual and I struggled for some reason. However, being pregnant, my libido is through the ROOF and sex doesn't ever hurt at all, it actually feels better pregnant.. So I want it like everyday! The few times we have done it he finishes kinda quickly but still makes sure I am pleased too. But now whenever I try to tell him that I wanna "be with him" and that I "need affection" he just ignores it or gets goofy. He used to look at my tits and wanna tear my clothes off with his teeth. I struggle to feel sexy or beautiful pregnant compared to how I used to look so this kind of behavior from him doesn't help. Ugh.. I just want to feel connected and also have an orgasm lol is that too much to ask?!?!?!
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I think some men get weirded out by the whole thing. But don't know how to verbalize it.
@littledannilove, I completely understand. I'm just hoping my libido is this good after baby. Haha. 😂
lol some guys think it's not the same cause the baby is in there feeling or hearing what's going on they just worry to much
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
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@kejs0911, haha right?!? Me too!!