Ugh I need to vent. Prepare for TMI but this has been an ongoing frustration for a few months.
Before my husband and I got pregnant I was always having hormonal highs and lows and my libido was often lower than I wanted it to be. He always wanted to have sex or be sexual and I struggled for some reason. However, being pregnant, my libido is through the ROOF and sex doesn't ever hurt at all, it actually feels better pregnant.. So I want it like everyday! The few times we have done it he finishes kinda quickly but still makes sure I am pleased too. But now whenever I try to tell him that I wanna "be with him" and that I "need affection" he just ignores it or gets goofy. He used to look at my tits and wanna tear my clothes off with his teeth. I struggle to feel sexy or beautiful pregnant compared to how I used to look so this kind of behavior from him doesn't help. Ugh.. I just want to feel connected and also have an orgasm lol is that too much to ask?!?!?!
I think some men get weirded out by the whole thing. But don't know how to verbalize it.
@littledannilove, I completely understand. I'm just hoping my libido is this good after baby. Haha. 😂
lol some guys think it's not the same cause the baby is in there feeling or hearing what's going on they just worry to much
@kejs0911, haha right?!? Me too!!