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Dejah Acevedo
Dejah Acevedo
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I'm really just hoping my son comes on his own sometime this weekend. I really don't want to have to go to the doctor to…

I'm really just hoping my son comes on his own sometime this weekend. I really don't want to have to go to the doctor to take an NST Monday for them to just monitor his heart rate, tell me he's fine and then send me back home! Duhh, I already know he's fucking fine, there's absolutely no point in making me wait until Friday to be induced!!! 😡

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motherof2taurusboys

NikitaМама двоих (младенец)

@air enace, lol they are too much lol hope he comes on his own

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queenace

Dejah AcevedoВ ожидании первенца

@motherof2taurusboys, ive been doing all that like crazy! I'm pretty sure he's ready to come he's just taking his sweet time lol

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motherof2taurusboys

NikitaМама двоих (младенец)

My first came at 38 n 5 I'm sure ur bundle is ready

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motherof2taurusboys

NikitaМама двоих (младенец)

Maybe do things to help him go down, when I turned 37 weeks I relaxed a lot but then close to 38 I felt heavy so for two days I walked 3 miles a day took two epo squatted and had pineapple for breakfast he came the second nigh broke my water and 7.5 hours later there he was.. So if you feel pressure or heavy he/she is ready but relaxing

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queenace

Dejah AcevedoВ ожидании первенца

@mgould0304, exactly that's what I'm saying! Completely pointless and a waste of gas honestly having to drive back and forth to the doctor all week 😒

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mgould0304

MichelleВ ожидании первенца

why do they have you doing two NST's? that just seems pointless. I'm only getting one on Thursday and i have an apt Wednesday to get my membranes stripped for the third time.

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queenace

Dejah AcevedoВ ожидании первенца

@mgould0304, Friday is the day they plan on inducing me but they want me to go get NST tests Monday & Thursday which makes no sense to me! Why can't they just go ahead and induce me on one of those days instead of making me wait and keep coming back to take a test?? You get what I'm saying? But dang mama, I feel your pain. Next Tuesday seems so much farther away than Friday. 😕

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mgould0304

MichelleВ ожидании первенца

At least your getting induced Friday, I have to wait until next Tuesday 😒

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

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Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my…

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