@lissy22, I love my Mw she is wonderful shes been there the last 6 yrs but the hv was a temp and the whole reason she thought it was because hubby wanted to be at the first couple of appointments to see how his first child was doing and she saw something malicious in it. I told the more permanent one don't send her to my house again but didn't make a complaint I just was happy not to.see her again but I don't trust any hv now

@stikkio, I got rid of my first midwife for exactly the same reason her name is Ruth and I've made a formal complaint

Just wondering what the point of having them is it just seems like I'm never going to be able to bond with my baby because of all the interfering midwifed and now blooding home visits

one accused my hubby of abusing me in a nasty way saying in her line of work u get a feel for these cases I kicked her out and haven't trusted one.since

havent met mine yet. midwife did mention an antenatal visit from the hv but havent heard anything since x

Mine seems nice, but I did get told horror stories before meeting her. But she was nothing like people said xx

They must be all different because I love mine. X