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Jessie
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Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Ladies, need opinions, please don't give me attitude because I will ignore it. My two stepdaughters are being raised…

Ladies, need opinions, please don't give me attitude because I will ignore it. My two stepdaughters are being raised Christian, MY daughters are being raised Jewish (their father and grandfather are Jewish). My boyfriend and I are atheists... I don't want the baby to be any religion until she chooses for herself. Do you think that's a good choice? Or should I just choose one or the other??

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pamomma5215

Deanna EddardsМама дочки-младенца

we don't go to church but I was raised Christian. my hubby is Mormon. my kids will be what ever they want. except one 2 of the religions. personal reasons.

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newbabymuva

GraysonMommy

I agree let your child choose.

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harranmommy

AliciaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I let my daughter choose. My parents MADE me go to church and I hated it. I've given her exposure to church. Sometimes she wants to go, sometimes she's doesn't & that is fine with me. It needs to be her choice

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momofthree85

Sherry O'DellМама двоих (5 лет, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

let your child choose. I'm not very religious (not sure which one I would even be classified as lol) we've been teaching my daughter a little bit of a few of them and letting her choose when she gets older. I really dislike how religion gets pushed on kids at such a young age

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klarrissab

KBВ ожидании первенца

I agree, let your child choose. I'm atheist, my husband is agnostic. I was raised in a very Christian household, it didn't affect me negatively but as I got older I decided it wasn't for me. If you feel like you have to choose a religion for your child it's not a bad thing. But I will not be raising my child with a religion, if she decides she wants to be religious I will support her decision, I won't prevent her from doing it. I will also keep her informed about religion because it's something I wouldn't want her to be misinformed about. I want her to be educated about all topics in life.

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daij

DaijahВ ожидании первенца

Let your child choose, it's their life not yours 😊😊😊❤️

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jesjeslovesyou

JesВ ожидании первенца

Well if they are raised Christian then you should allow her to do that. I'd just not really mention it. Those are her kids and she'd already exposed them to that. Telling them anything else will confuse them.

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brittneylove

Brittney MassalloВ ожидании первенца

we are raising our son Christian but he will have a right to choose if he wants to continue with it as he gets older. I mean we arent bible thumpers by any means but we know we love God and will raise him to as well.

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10yearslater0205

Shannon CatulloМама двоих (11 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего

I was Non donominatinal and hubby was Catholic I taught them both but both and hubby are now mine ...

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housfullofgrls

JessieМама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I was raised Catholic, and my stepdaughters are being raised Christian by their mom, who is a born again or something. Thanks ladies, I will stick to my guns and let the baby choose for herself.

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paula91

PaulaВ ожидании первенца

I think that's good because I didn't choose the religion I wanted to believe in I like being a Christian but the church I was raised to attend while growing up made me not even wanna go to church anymore 😩😩😩

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paula91

PaulaВ ожидании первенца

I think that's good because I didn't choose the religion I wanted to believe in I like being a Christian but the church I was raised to attend while growing up made me not even wanna go to church anymore 😩😩😩

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jennaboo

Jenna OconВ ожидании первенца

My dad is Jewish and mom is Catholic and they raised used Jewish and I'm upset they didn't let me chose for myself because I don't agree w the Jewish religion and want to be Catholic so it's way better your letting them pick wish my parents let us pick

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jesjeslovesyou

JesВ ожидании первенца

If you're an atheist you can't possibly teach your baby how to be Christian... And honestly, Christianity is the last religion id teach. If your kids find spirituality on their own then that's beautiful but my kids will not know of a religion that isn't real and brings out hate in people. Ugh. Not Christianity lol

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taylorrleee1

TaylorМама дочки-младенца

I was always allowed to choose my own religion and I'll let my daughter choose hers too.

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kenitra

KenitraВ ожидании первенца

We aren't religious but I may be sending this boy to 1/2 days at a Jewish School when he is 2 years old. I think maybe for consistency with the other children (so the new baby doesn't feel left out), you go with the one that makes the most sense. You can still let the kids know that it's their choice in the end which religion (or no religion) they identify with.

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mc.squared

MeganМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I left it up to my kids too. I had religion crammed down my throat as a kid and refuse to do that to my own. I don't think that's wrong at all :)

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mama_icie

AshleyМногодетная мама (5 детей)

child should choose once they understand it

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joceycx

JocelynВ ожидании первенца

Yes I think it's good that you will let them choose they're own religion when they're older

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I don't think she gets it. I swear sometimes I just need to renew my policy to not look at the comments in Facebook. I never used to. I don't know why I started. But the ignorance is real.