Ugh I know everybody parent differently but why are people so hard on newborns baffles me seriously....how do I MAKE my…

@mommyagain,

Awwwe youre So so sweet! 😃😊

@mygiftof2016, Yep everything will be ok momma I guess he was just ready to see his mommy now and couldn't wait another day he loves you that much

@ashleymonae, Right that's all I'm saying they are new here they're afraid they just want to be loved on goodness...and awwww I never thought of that!

lol I'm supposed to have like 17 or something idk like 2 weeks + 😬 idk how I feel about it. like I want him obviously but I wanted him to take his time I'm def in no rush! but I'm glad I got to this point anyways so I guess it's ok 😘

i was a new mother 3 years ago and didnt even think like that! its called lack of knowledge! newborns are use to being in your womb not in the real world ots different and it scares them i use to put a blanket on my baby and lay her on my tummy.

@mygiftof2016, Yaaaaaaay congrats momma! Keep my updated! I still have 78 days to go but I'm patient

Oh god, lol. They are new mothers! It's as a shock for them as it is for the baby. And all of those things are achievable as there are things you can do to comfort the baby to get them to sleep a little longer, not be so clingy, etc. people still need to do things for themselves... And I always say this but what another person does with their own child should never annoy you. Geeshhh. Let people live😂.

I did you too! btw my water broke at 230am now I have to get these contractions going good! I'm very thankful I made it this far though because I've never gone past 34 weeks and I've been on antibiotics for a few weeks just on case so hopefully baby decides he wana get the ball rolling at this point and come join the world. I can't wait to hear his first cry and see what we have created together 😃 my husbands first child what an honor it is! it's guna be great 😅

@mygiftof2016, yes ma'am just followed you!

lol Awwwe you're awesome 😉we shall keep in touch then

@mygiftof2016, I love you lol you're my long lost twin I believe

yes exactly! they're a real live baby not a toy or a doll you cant just take their batteries out when they're inconvienent for you smh

@mygiftof2016, Yep they do just what you said in that order complain complain complain

@mygiftof2016, great minds think alike because that's all I'm saying is live in the moment enjoy it stop being so negative Nancy about every freakin thing understand life doesn't go your way all the time go with the flow it's much easier if you ask me

in seriously thinking people like to complain no matter what the situation! example; I will never have a baby it's taking too long to get pregnant. then; I'm sick of the heartburn the discompfort I feel so fat etc. then; (at week 30+) how can I get the baby out I can't take it anymore. then; I wish I was still pregnant I never sleep my husband won't get up baby cries too much won't let me put them down etc. then; my baby grown too quick I wish they were little etc. My point is just be happy for the moment! stop n smell the flowers they're beautiful! that's all. @mommyagain

@mygiftof2016, Oh yes I have that same urge at times like why would you bring a child into this world and then when they get here think they're supposed to not cry sleep 8 hours not want you to hold them etc. then they want to throw that I have to go back to work or school so I NEED my baby to get with the program errr that's not their problem you should have put more thought into it honestly

exactly what I think! it's aggravating to me also and I do honestly find myself getting off this app and sometimes deleting a comment because it's none of my buisness how ignorant mothers are sometimes! @mommyagain

@mygiftof2016, Yes Yes Yes you get it and you are so right! They didn't ask to be here we wanted them here I also love how you said figure your baby out they don't need to fit us that's right!

@kenitra, Right! It's like they go from I can't wait til my baby gets here to ok this baby needs to do all these things like sleep 8 hours not eat so much not cry so much this that and the third. They are a brand new human being cut them some freakin slack and just go with the flow and love on them they have the rest of their life to have to listen and follow demands sheesh!

exactly what my husband n i discussed the other day! and this is why I want my home to continue to be the way it has been and continue life normal with out a pack of people over here bothering my son! he'll be on my chest instead of inside me and a few other changes but he's not some kind of animal at a zoo or a you to be passed etc. also we have to figure him out he doesn't need to fit us! we wanted him he didn't ask for any of this and deserves to be taken care of. yes newborns can be hard sometimes but such is life! I will happily "spoil" my baby smh sorry rant over here too

This makes me so sad. Poor babies. I can't believe people say those kids of things. People need to pickup at least one book about babies and child development or at least talk to their pediatrician.