••••••RANT/VENT••••••• Feeling like crap. My fiancé is sleeping in the other room tonight. We got in a huge fight…

I completely understand what your going through my SO DOES the same exact thing here if you want to talk

I just hate that I work so hard taking care of the baby and get no help from him or family. Literally in 7 months I've never left my baby's side. But I'm not appreciated at all. I'm so sorry you're going through this too. Why are they like this?! @mommyofroyalprincessdeila

I have no clue and my baby is 5 months and my mom watches her sometime but for the most part she's with me... they don't realise the hard work it takes to be a stay at home mom

Yeah I tell him then here take her for more than 10 minutes and he can't. And I say "see it's hard." And he goes right back to saying what I do isn't hard. Like wtf?! I don't get them. @mommyofroyalprincessdeila

you shouldn't be dealing with that. the fact that he has that on his search history (how to slip you an abortion pill) I would not stay and this is just my opinion, I would be scared for my child's life. not saying you aren't or whatever. but that really does not sound good

He sounds abusive emotionally. The pills is a huge red flag. I don't see why you're with him!!!

@ftm2babyc, @mommastone yeah he is very emotionally abusive. He has done other things that are so crazy. He threatens me with my child if I bring up leaving him saying he won't do joint custody or even see her and he knows I want her to have a dad so I'll stay. I grew up without my dad so I just want him in her life. I know I shouldn't be with him. But I also have no where to go. My moms house is filled with animals and feces and pee everywhere and she has gotten MRSA 4 times from it. I don't want to expose my baby to that. :(

go to a woman's shelter, they help in those situations and trust me, he will not be able to get custody, don't even worry about that, he sounds like a toxic dad, if he does that to you nothing will stop him from emotionally abusing your child. my dad did and it has been a really tough thing to deal with.

@ftm2babyc, but if I'm in a shelter won't they grant him custody because he can better provide for her? I'm so worried. He has threatened when I was pregnant that he would fight for custody and then give her up for adoption. Because he didn't want anything to do with her but he just wanted to hurt me by taking her away. If I leave him he will do anything to hurt me. I did once when I was pregnant and he contacted my whole family and friends and exs and told them all lies about me so they all started calling me and getting mad at me saying I'm a horrible person.

just check it out to be 100% but if he's saying that, you will get custody. you're trying to get away from an abusive person, he wouldn't be able to get custody then.

@ftm2babyc, okay I checked it out and you're right- they won't deny me custody due to living in a shelter. Thank you so much!

yeah no problem :) I never like seeing women go through that, you don't deserve it.

you can totally win custody. that search history is proof enough of his ill intent, slipping abortion pills without the mother's knowledge or consent is considered murder

@loveless, okay good I was wondering if that would win me custody. He was searching if it's illegal and where to buy some. Also foods that cause miscarriages and he bought those foods for me and supplements.

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I'd suggest finding those receipts if he kept them @mamesey you have a strong case but you will still need a lawyer fortunately there are attorneys out there that work to help women in your situation

He took me to a notary to sign a document. He has since gotten rid of the document but they have records of us being there

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This one says about the pill

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Ok ladies if you have the time please give me your opinion if this is good evidence. Thanks so much ❤️ @loveless @ftm2babyc

@mommastone,

He ended up buying the vitamin C and kept pushing me to take them. Also started buying me salads with aioli every day

yeah save all of this and find a lawyer asap

Thank you so much ❤️💕 @loveless

definitely with the evidence of reaserching the abortion stuff. keep the evidence, because that right there with a lawyer, you will have a very VERY good chance.

@ftm2babyc, you ladies are awesome. My family knows all of this but still would call me on the phone when I had left him and yell at me for hours to get back with him. I have no support and they make me feel like the bad guy for wanting to get away from him

Thank you so much

It's hard because he acts like he loves her but the moment we fight he says if I leave he never wants to see her again and it breaks my heart

don't pay mind to what they say, they don't know him like you do I'm sure on the surface he seems like a very upstanding man but the reality shows his true colors/darker nature and it is not acceptable. what's priority is the safety and well being of both you and your baby. have strength, good luck to you and much love <3 @mamesey

Yes he seems like a very nice guy in public. The first few months of our relationship were literally perfect and he always would surprise me with gifts and everything. And all of a sudden it's like someone flipped a switch and he became full of hate and kinda evil. Thank you so much I really really appreciate the support ❤️ @loveless

Girl I just got updated. Please leave. Oh goodness! So scary and so evil. I don't know the whole story or both sides, but this is wrong!!

I think I will very soon. The whole story is I had a miscarriage in 2013 with my ex. I had to have surgery to get the baby out. My doctor said the scar tissue from the surgery will cause me not to be able to hold a pregnancy. Well they were obviously wrong because 2 years later I have my baby. So my fiancé got mad and blamed me for getting pregnant when I literally was told by my doctors I couldn't. And I just couldn't have an abortion because even though it wasn't planned it felt like a miracle because I lost my first baby halfway through my pregnancy and I didn't think I could have kids. So I wasn't just going to abort. Well he got pissed off and then this all started. 😟 I never did anything to hurt him I just didn't have it in me to abort a baby when I lost one before and was told I would never have another baby

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That is so wrong Hun. I'm sorry you're going through this! You are one of so many that have been told they can't get pregnant and do!

😢😢😢 my heart is breaking right now. I'm sorry.

@kandice_stedman86, thank you ❤️

Leave him. looking up ways to secretly abort your baby? that's not okay. take care of you and your baby.