I just pray they will get it together once the baby comes smh but I just tell him to prepare himself @lob emyson215

same as my bd too lol. all he wants to do is smoke weed and play video games at 29 years of age lol it's sad

Thank you everyone !!! Trust I let him go out all the time buts getting to the point where I feel like his friends are more important then me all he wants to do is smoke weed and cigarettes and he acts like he's going to die if he stays in the house all day. @lo lkountryma @lovemyson215 @lovingbabykadence @tiffrae

let him. when we had our first he was always gone with his friends. Once he turned one he was always home. 6 years later when he wants to go out I in courage him to go because he always feels guilty leaving us home. We are always together and the time when we are apart is him at work for 11hrs 4 days a week.

I have to opposite problem. My Husband is my shadow and I wish he would go out. However, I understand what you mean. I think you should just let him know how you are feeling. There needs to be a balance. He can spend time with his friends sometimes, but he should also focus on his relationship with you. I think sometimes we get too comfortable in relationships and take our partner for granted. Tell him you'd like for the both of you to go out and do fun stuff together and enjoy one another. Perhaps going bowling, movies, dinner, a picnic by a beautiful lake etc. Maybe giving him examples of how much fun you too could have may peak his interest and bring him to realize how beautiful and important his relationship is with you.

I had that problem when I was pregnant. my bd always left me everyday for 1-9 hours to hang with his friends. which I had a problem with it though lol everyday is too much. I hated it. Hated getting left alone at his house by myself. So I moved back with my mom lol

Tell him. discuss how you feel. communication is key to a good relationship