So I had my gallbladder out last friday. It still hurts today! I mean of course its going to hurt since my fiance works all day and cant help out, so instead of resting like I was told to do I have care for my 23 lb 7 month old (im not supposed to be lifting over 10lbs). I am constantly bending, lifting, cleaning etc. BUT even when my fiance isnt working hes still NOT helping. Thanks buddy ill just be in pain over here forever!
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@mamesey, yes they do! @kreeblim you are very lucky! Both of our mothers have passed away and neither of the rest of our families give 2 shits, we are literally doing this all alone
We flew my mother in law in when my gall bladder came out and she took over for me so I could rest. I've never been so grateful for family
@mamesey, exactly! It was the same for my c-section as well!
Ugh! I'm so sorry. My fiancé was like that. Didn't take time off when I had my csection and didn't help when he was home. I don't understand guys. If they get so much as a cold they act like they're dying but we get surgery and are left to do everything on our own with no help from them
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So threw up the brew but still having some contractions. I suppose it will help dilation.
Sigh so I guess my appointment for Friday to get monitoring is still on .
I hope my fluids stay consistent.
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I'm so tired of jobs never working out for me, makes me feel like such a disappointment especially to my fiance and it just hurts. nothing ever works out for me and I hate it so much 💔
Any helpful advice for me to help ease the pain? I'm pregnant and still breastfeeding my 19 month old, but I cry every time because my nipples are hurting so badly, and my daughter wants to be on them 24/7.
@xoxo512070, god I'm so sorry. Wish I could help you.