Ugh, i have two months until i get married. I was supposed to have AT (Annual training for the army)…

Ugh, i have two months until i get married. I was supposed to have AT (Annual training for the army) but I wasn't medically cleared from my pregnancy so I didn't get to go. I was really counting on that money. We are broke and all of our plans keep falling through. We don't want to reschedule because my oldest brother cancelled a gig that was going to pay very well. I have no idea where to start and my fiance and I can't agree on anything :( he won't do it at a church (he wants his friend to marry us) can't agree on food, colors, theme. Two months away..I'm so stressed :(