I haven't wanted to post much about this, because it's such a hard subject. 3 weeks ago, at my 24 week checkup, I found out my son has a tumor growing on his neck, connected to his shoulder. there's nothing that can be done until he's born, and it'll be straight into surgery for him. NOT straight into mommy's arms, not into daddy's arms, straight into surgery. I've been doing everything possible to keep positive, but today I got a notification for my GoFundMe page, that no one has donated, and it was removed due to being suspicious of fraud. IDK what do. no one ever expects their baby to be born with tumors, or sick. no one ever wants it. but those who find out during pregnancy or during birth need extra support, extra help. I cannot afford EVERYTHING that my son is going to need for his journey, my insurance won't cover everything until they find out if it's cancerous or not. I've been denied help from friends, family, and the state. my bf is working 2 jobs and even then, it's not enough. my baby shower was cancelled because no one was coming, so I won't have that help. I'm not a woman that goes and asks for hand outs or anything, but I need the help. that's why I did the GoFundMe. just to be told it's suspicious of fraud. Im trying to get over getting robbed, I'm trying to get over getting kicked out of our place because it was infested with cockroaches and the city refused to give us our rent back or put us in a different place. I need an angels kiss to help us!!!!
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@quin230, I would stick with PayPal gofundme makes money off u a percent of your donations PayPal is free from one person to another u could make flyer and add ur PayPal email as a link to donate. Also on ur ins I would be throwing a fit all ins have out of pocket cost and once yours is met they pay everything it's the law. Have u met your out of pocket? If u haven't u will most defiantly will with the cost of delivery. I just priced mine last week
I'm so sorry you're going thru this! I'd love to help but cannot at the moment. Maybe whenever you set up a new gofundme you can put up the link and I'd gladly donate! If you don't mind, I'll be praying for you and baby!
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
I get bothered at the fact that I ask for help/advice & no one reaches out. Yeah, I'm a new mom but when I see someone needs advice or help I often share my experiences and try to help in the best way possible. But hey, it's okay!
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I know it’s a little early but 🤷🏻♀️ I need help picking out my daughter’s outfit for a xmas party.... which one looks better?
I haven't ever used PayPal before... I'll look into it. I haven't reached it yet, but I will by the time my son is born.