Is It Wrong to Exclude Sperm Donor from Delivery Room?
I just want to get some of you mommy's opinion. Do you think it is wrong for me to not allow my sperm donor to be in the delivery room?? He has not bought anything Since I found out I was pregnant. I bought her everything. Once in a blue moon if that he will say how is the baby. He wants a DNA test because he was jealous and insecure our whole relationship and thinks I cheated, which I didn't but trust me I wish I would have. but I am not like that. He thinks that he has rights to everything and that he will get 50-50 custody when she is born. I also am giving her my last name because I don't feel like he deserves that right when he hasn't done nothing. Am I wrong?
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Nope your not wrong if he wants to be a part of her life he needs to help you out and I would put your last name on the birth certificate (he doesn't deserve it)
I would choose not to have him in there, also don't put his name on the birth certificate.
Thank you. And really?? I didn't know that. Thank you for the information @kayleeburton
No girl! You are doing what's best for you and your child. If you put withheld on the birth certificate instead of his name you take away all his rights. And then after he will have to pay for EVERYTHING to prove that he is the father when you already know he is.
Ok good. I appreciate all the support. I was worried I would get bashed. I just feel like how can he expect so much when he does nothing. And your right I don't want to be stressed and ruin anything. Thank you all @mimi_s_the_boss @sincerlyyangie @brycesmommy
do what's best for you ...don't do anything that may cause you stress or ruin this beautiful experience.... we are in the same boat so I understand😩
Thank you guys