I just want to get some of you mommy's opinion. Do you think it is wrong for me to not allow my sperm donor to be in the delivery room?? He has not bought anything Since I found out I was pregnant. I bought her everything. Once in a blue moon if that he will say how is the baby. He wants a DNA test because he was jealous and insecure our whole relationship and thinks I cheated, which I didn't but trust me I wish I would have. but I am not like that. He thinks that he has rights to everything and that he will get 50-50 custody when she is born. I also am giving her my last name because I don't feel like he deserves that right when he hasn't done nothing. Am I wrong?