My pregnancy , my baby, my rules.. I understand your gmom, and gpop. I understand this is your first grandchild, nephew/niece.. I understand you just care but PLEASE do NOT tell me or even give your thought on how to raise MY child. Please understand I wouldn't put my own child in any danger or risk her/his health even if you feel uncomfortable with my decision or even my opinion.. that is all. Be there for my child if you choose to, but remember, you're not the one who birthed him/her and who is raising him/her ; I DID AND I AM 😊...😒