Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Breastfeeding moms: so I am planning on going on a 3 day vacation with my hubby & a bunch of friends to Catalina in May, (my baby won't be going with us) and I do not wanna be pumping and dumping every 2 hours out there.. so if I don't pump or breastfeed for 3-4 days, will my milk supply drop significantly? 😩😩 & I don't know how I'm gonna deal with the engorgement pain if I can't find time to pump out there.
Some people I swear 🙄 I'm just going to sit here and shake my head at you. You are ridiculous. 🖐🏻
I am FREAKING out. I told my therapist I smoke marijuana to help with morning sickness, and she reported me to her supervisor. They referred me to their drug clinic on the 11th, and I'm so nervous because when they drug test me and if it's positive, I already have an ACS case and they will report me to my worker. My friend suggested Niacin, 500mg twice a day for two weeks, but I'm nervous if it's safe for the baby. I'm going to drink a gallon of water a day and try to ingest vinegar....ladies I'm so nervous, if I show up positive I will lose BOTH my kids. My therapist betrayed my trust. Is there anything you guys can suggest to get this out of my system within a week or two? I'm going to go crazy!!!!
Tiffany·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (31 нед.)
my sister got checked at her 37 week appointment and went into early labor the next day followed by having her baby the next night. so sometimes being checked starts things!
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@tater4414, that's exactly my point....if you've had a healthy pregnancy and no issues....then you can decline the checks and your doctor won't be able to stress you out with a number.
Eternity·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (28 нед.)
Yeah i can see that, but I also think doctors have a lot to do with stressing moms out a lot!
Angela·
Мама двоих (10 лет, 14 лет), ждёт третьего
@tayes it is I am the same I had no signs I went in and my cervix was so short they had to place a cerclage and I'm happy to say after losing twins last year at 20 weeks due to a short cervix I am now 30 weeks thanks to God:)
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@tater4414, Clearly if there is medical concern then yes the checks are important. This posts speaks in terms of people complaining about how they aren't making progress etc and getting stressed that at 37 weeks they aren't dilated.
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exactly @preciouslove if youre having pre term contractions then you need to be checked in case there's a risk of pre term labor. Otherwise in a healthy pregnancy.....it's not important
Eternity·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (28 нед.)
For some women (like me) it Uber important to be checked because of preterm problems. I started being checked at 20 weeks and it's good because my cervix is shortening and something already.
Angela·
Мама двоих (10 лет, 14 лет), ждёт третьего
I agree what's the point really that early I think it's only important before 34 weeks
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smh @brycesmommy I'll be declining cervical checks until I'm at least 38 to 39 weeks. I only like knowing because bad on my experience, i can Guage when to go to the hospital based on my contractions if i know how many cm i was prior to labor starting. But checking at 35 and 36 weeks like why
Shannon 🌺💖·
Мама сына-младенца
I was at a 2 when I was 36 weeks, and when I was induced at 39 I was still a 2! Then went into labor and went from 2-10 in like 5 hours! Means nothing, I wonder the same when people worry if they haven't dilated.
missing440user·
my doctor checked me Monday and I was wondering why so early... my cervix thicker than a snicker and its closed lol ...