Well feeling more discouraged about going go into labor on my own now.... Got a call from my ob this morning that I need to see a hematologist before I go into labor... ok that's easy enough I can do that.... well the appointment is may 24th...2 days after my due date. I guess my ob isn't worried about me going into labor on my own either :( looks like its gonna be another c-section and o really had my hopes set on a VBAC.
Its very possible to deliver natural you just gotta make them see it's important to u I hope it all goes well hun I plan on staying home till I feel like im about to push them I'll go to the hospital because them they have no choice and I'm not being forced to do something I don't wana and the other doctor agreed I'm done to vbac so im guna!
I wanted that also but my doctor straight up told me no. My first birth was a Csection because of his heart rate. I really wanted to experience that vaginal birth too. 😕
nope not at all there are dangers but there are also dangers with c-section @jujukiss @shwayzelovee welcome
@laytons_mommy, wow thanks for the insight cause my friend had a c-section and I thought vaginal delivery was over for her ever again
nope not unless your dr refuses to allow vaginal or if you have too many complications @jujukiss and the 24th is the only appointment they have open before the c-section date @mygiftof2016
oh ok well they should let you see one before your due date for one smh and let you try! that's bs I've been very demanding about at least letting me try and there is no reason you can't either! call them and tell them your set on vbacing and see what they can do. don't let them push u around trust me one of my doctors did and the other out me on meds so I can at least try.
I thought after a c-section every child after has to be a c-section. crap I learned something new today
I had to the first time because my labor wasn't progressing and my heart rate went too high and my son's dropped too low. And I can't go past 41 weeks with this one because I have a bleeding disorder and my ob and hematologist aren't comfortable with the risks that go along with the bleeding issue and going past 41. @mygiftof2016
they've been pushing me for a c section the whole time! I'm dead set on vbac and they just need to understand that's what I'm guna do. my body my birth my child my life! y did u have a c section on the first place? if u were you I would let them know this is your choive and that's what you wana do! u have to advocate for tourself
@shwayzelovee, some say no because they don't like to or the hospital is too small which is why they're pushing me but I'm not taking no for an answer. if u need one due to complications etc ok but I'm not guna just be told no