No shade to any one but I must vent about something. How the hell do people be popping out kids like…

I mean honestly its their choice. I thought the same thing when i was younger but now my daughter is almost e and my son is a month old. I mean if their months to a year apart that's hard because that's twice the diapers and baby stuff.

Same here am trying to understand because this pregnancy thing is not easy and I really don't see my self doing it for atleast 3 to 4 years from now 😩😩

I mean Doing it again for atleast 3 to 4 years from now

I figured it will be hard. I'm slick finding it hard with one. Me and my fiancé are college student with different schedules. He works most of the week now because I'm in bedrest. I be like man we can't afford daycare when our son gets here off one income @francesgln92

That's not bad. My mama had three kids, all 4 years apart. That gives you time she says @paula91

Because I need all the time I can get because I can't deal for real lol @aheggs3

it is hard with 2 kids. My fiance works nights and i stay at home since I had a c section. I plan to go back to school and daycare is Bella expensive. I'm happy my daughter is gonna start kindergarten next year @aheggs3

Daycare is. Here it's like $145 a week then it just go down $10 after they turn two. So doing that for two kids is $290. That's my part of rent in one week @paula91 @francesgln92

lucky here in San diego it really depends on the area. My daughter's was almost $200 a week but I payed almost $600 a month and when I got pregnant I took her out because we couldn't afford it on one income

That rent for an apartment. And most of the girl I see are doing it by themselves so I don't get it @francesgln92

ha rent here the lowest I've seen it is $700 and that's for a crap studio. there's places that are $3,000 to rent a 3 bed room. we still love with my fiances parents because we can't afford everything on our own, so they built a larger studio in the back for us

See we pay $848 for a two bedroom apartment. ( my fiancé dad helps us with rent ) but we pay bills on our own. So I could just imagine. I pray for the best for me and you both

@francesgln92,

Im 19 . had my first at 18 when he was 8 months old i got pregnant but sadly had a mc . i am now 27 weeks along luckily i dont needa worry about daycare or anything ,i absolutely do not trust anybody with my child so i refuse to put him in daycare or even leave him with mother in law or mom .he has been with me since he was born ,hubby works and earns good ,but personally i have stopped and thought to myself how do single mothers do this ? . must be really hard though

you never know someone situation who they got too watch their kids sometimes for free not to mention there is daycare vouchers... my kids are three years apart they are both in school now 10 n 6 n I am starting over lol but me n my bf will just schedule everything around each other doesn't give us much time together but I won't do daycare for a child who can't talk

Lol we were gonna get out own place and then his mom looked at us and was like you guys can but the kids will stay with us lol. we pay rent, our phones, insurance on 2 cars (their paid off) motorcycle payments and insurance for the motorcycle, and 3 credit cards. lucky my fiance I on his parents health insurance right now and me and the kids are on medical until we get married

@aheggs3,

@annanichole that's my thing. How do single moms do? I mean I have to salute those who do a darn great job. @lovemiithree your situation is different.

I cant even imagine myself doing a single moms job ! When i do its like mann what if i ever do become one how the hell am i gonna do this on my own ! Even though their father would help out but still even thinking about it stresses me !

See it's a lot @francesgln92

Yupm

Yes. Like I'm about to have my first son any day now. I be thinking will I make it being the person to care for him majority of the time. Me and my fiancé live two to four hours away from our family so we depend on each other @annanichole

I'm one of those people. I will be 22 in July I have been married for 4 Yrs and this is my 3rd pregnancy but 2nd baby. My oldest will be 2 next Sunday. we had a daughter pass away last year and was surprised with this Blessing in Jan. God has Blessed us with the finances and patience to take care of multiple children. And due to us wanting a big family we have 2 daughters now.😊

I'm one too. 21 been married for 3 years, 2nd baby, and by the time I have this one my son will be 2. I wanted my first two kids to be exactly 2 years apart. I worked my whole first pregnancy up until 8 months pp although my husband wanted me to be a sahm 5 months ppl. I'm now a stay at home mom most of my time but I still work when I can. I have a great support system and my hubby got promoted, a pay raise, and is now full time. He was full time before but it was through a temp agency and the company hired him permanently. Money isn't an issue. I have family that doesn't mind watching my son or both children when the other gets here so no need for daycare plus I don't trust them anyways. I love being a sahm but I'm also trying to find permanent work just for extra income. I also working on potty training so hopefully by the time my second son gets here my first will be almost out or completely out of diapers. @blessedmommy03 is my best friend! We completely understand each other and go through the same stuff. 😘

I know a girl who lives in my town and is 28 and has 12 kids and wants another!! and the sad thing is tha her newest baby is the only one with her the others are with her ex husband's or in state custody.