Vent: I don't understand how someone has no motivation, no desire to want more in life. My mans mom has no motivation to do anything besides be in her kids (which are adults now 26-30) business's and drama... But when I tell her about a job or even a business endeavor she's all of a sudden is to old, or to sick. 🤔 she doesn't have much of anything, she can hardly afford a bra if she needed one. She stays in the house and never wants to hang w: her adult friends... I feel sorry for her at times but other times I don't because I don't understand a person w/ no motivation in life. I'm convinced that she's depressed. 🤔
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@pikapal, yes they're close... I try motivating her, talking to her but she'll be all for things when u talking to her but than the moment there's no attention on her she finds some sickness or complains she's tired.... I've never had a mental issue, I've been through things but my Ma raised me to never let things hold u down... Maybe ppl just deal w/ things differently, it's hard for me to be sympathetic... It help if she doesn't want to help herself. 😞
its not as easy as it sounds .. what if she was raped? assaulted? what if shes dealing with it because shes holding it in.. if you havent had a mental illness you wont understand
It may be what she said up there^^ and it's not as easy as just shaking it off. Maybe she just needs some emotional support or something? Are her and your man close?
It's a possibility @mommypanda but u can't dwell on the past. Some ppl have to learn to be strong n shake it off.
maybe something in her past is bugging her and its hitting her hard right now.
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
Thanks everyone for the prayers unfortunately I don't think there's anything else that can be done
They gave me an epidural and we're just waiting now. They asked if she's born do I wanna hold her until she passes. I don't understand why this is happening. I don't want watch my little girl die. This is unbearable.y heart is breaking my poor baby girl. I'm so sorry baby.
I don't understand why my mother claims she has to claim me on her taxes
She no longer helps me financially and I'm 19
I hope she's not trying to play me
Tell me if I'm wrong here.
My husband's sil has covid. She's obviously quarantining in her house but is still loving on her kids and husband. I'm sorry but if I had it I would lock myself in a room.
She hasn't gotten her kids tested... they're obviously doing the whole remote learning and quarantining for two weeks but she plans to send them back without testing them on the Monday after Thanksgiving 😬😱.
My husband thinks I'm overreacting but I told him I don't want to see them on Christmas....
Especially if she doesn't want to help herself (correction) ^^