I can't stop crying. i had my baby 34 weeks he is in the nicu . he is doing great but i have a 2 year old and she is great. i cant afford her day care right now since im not working and my dad can watch her but i feel bad . like im burdening my family. my husdand is an ass and tells me i should not stay at tne hospital and i should watch my own daughter is it wrong to want to be with my newborn? i am home tonight with my daughter but i feel bad i can't be in both places and i just feel terrible.
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my daughter was born at 33 weeks and I had a 11 month at home.....hour and a half away and their dad wanted nothing to do with them. Take the help that you can get, trust me. Spend the time with your new born it is soo important while in the NICU. We spent 8 weeks in NICU and the babies that their parents weren't there a lot had more issues in long run
your husband is the one who should feel terrible for saying some stupid shit like that. you're right he is an ass. if your dad doesn't mind watching your daughter, then you go be with your baby honey. fufk what your husband thinks.
Don't feel bad. It's not wrong to want to be with your newborn. Just try and find a balance between both of the kids that works for you :)
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he pos...
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
I feel like my daughter is in pain but obviously can't read her mind... I want to get Tylenol but don't know If I should give it to her BC I don't know for sure if she's in pain.. 😨
Dad's FB Video!!
Did anyone see that video a dad posted on his daughters FB page? He saw a post she made where she bashed her parents and cursed them, called them lazy and told them they should pay her for stuff she did around the house... So he called her out on it and put the video on her page!! Sorry if I missed a post already about this already, but I just saw the video and IT WAS AWESOME!!! Hahahhaa!
Stay with the baby don't listen to what anyone says do what u think is right