I can't stop crying. i had my baby 34 weeks he is in the nicu . he is doing great but i have a 2 year old and she is great. i cant afford her day care right now since im not working and my dad can watch her but i feel bad . like im burdening my family. my husdand is an ass and tells me i should not stay at tne hospital and i should watch my own daughter is it wrong to want to be with my newborn? i am home tonight with my daughter but i feel bad i can't be in both places and i just feel terrible.
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my daughter was born at 33 weeks and I had a 11 month at home.....hour and a half away and their dad wanted nothing to do with them. Take the help that you can get, trust me. Spend the time with your new born it is soo important while in the NICU. We spent 8 weeks in NICU and the babies that their parents weren't there a lot had more issues in long run
your husband is the one who should feel terrible for saying some stupid shit like that. you're right he is an ass. if your dad doesn't mind watching your daughter, then you go be with your baby honey. fufk what your husband thinks.
Don't feel bad. It's not wrong to want to be with your newborn. Just try and find a balance between both of the kids that works for you :)
Stay with the baby don't listen to what anyone says do what u think is right