FTM here!!! I'm 37 weeks as of yesterday! And for the past few days I've been feeling a lot of pressure. Today has been the worse! I've been cramping a lot, feeling like she's ready to come out, I've been having the urge to poop but nothing comes out and when I do try to go I feel a lot of pressure down there and I have to kind of sit on the John in a slanted way, it's very uncomfortable to sit up bcz I can feel pressure down low, I've become very nasues but nothing seems to come up. My stomach is hard as a rock and I have this big huge red spot covering the front of my belly. I feel sick to my stomach all day today and I can't seem to get comfortable bcz it hurts to sit up. The only time I feel comfortable is if I'm laying down flat on my back or if I'm standing. When I went to my doctors about 2 weeks ago, I wasn't dilated at all, I have a doctors app. Tomorrow at 10 with a new doctor bcz they referred me to someone closer to where I live. I'm really scared bcz I don't know what contractions actually feel like. The other day, me and my hubby was having sex (sorry if it's tmi) but I was on top and he said that he felt something hard and that it felt like I was bending his friend. So it made it very uncomfortable for him and me as well. And we haven't had sex since bcz he's afraid it was the babies head. I'm just scared that if this is actual labor and if I wait to long, i might hurt the baby. Idk what to do! Please help!! 😭😭