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So I'm 40.3 and st8ll have not had my son Ayden. I have an on appointment tomorrow...do you think he will just have me…

So I'm 40.3 and st8ll have not had my son Ayden. I have an on appointment tomorrow...do you think he will just have me go to the hospital tomorrow to be induced or schedule one for later in the week? I really wish he would just do it tomorrow but everyone keeps telling me he won't and will just schedule one. I wish my water would just break and I could have him but I know that wont happen...everywhere I go people keep telling me he's still to high and hasnt dropped but he has and I can feel it and plus he's a big boy and I'm only 5'2 so I'm pretty short. Am I just being weird or what?

Thanks in advance.

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mommy.valencia6

Angela EspinozaМногодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

wow how crazy well good luck girl sound like you will be going for a while if baby dont wanna come yet @aydensmommy2016 am 38 weeks nd will probably have my baby b4 you best of wishes

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aydensmommy2016

rosita warnМама двоих (младенец)

Yeah he said he wont check unless I'm already in the hospital in labor...like active labor. @mommy.valencia6

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mommy.valencia6

Angela EspinozaМногодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

wow your doctor is werid i cant believe wont check you my doctor even opend me up more i was at 2 nd he open me up to 4 nd said if i had pains to go in but if i didnt he set me up to go in the nxtz to be induce this was for my last pregnancy @aydensmommy2016

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aydensmommy2016

rosita warnМама дочки (3 года), беременна (40 нед.)

@reaganmommy2015, I went today and he told me that he won't unless he has to my contractions arnt close enough for him and my water hasn't broke yet. I told him though that with my daughter it disnt break till I was in the hospital already.

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reaganmommy2015

Martee 💋💋Мама троих детей

@aydensmommy2016, it wouldn't hurt to ask

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aydensmommy2016

rosita warnМама дочки (3 года), беременна (40 нед.)

@reaganmommy2015, Ohh okay. My doctor is weird he wouldn't even check me to see if I was dialating or anything. I have been having contractions but not consiaten...I went to l&d so I could get check and since I was still not going into labor and they said I was 2cm and fully efaced. That's why I wondered if he would even induce.

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reaganmommy2015

Martee 💋💋Мама троих детей

They might induce you but they might give you an ultrasound to check the weight of the baby

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