Long post. Need to vent. So freaking moody today. Seriously want to throw something. I know my hubby…

Long post. Need to vent. So freaking moody today. Seriously want to throw something. I know my hubby is a mamas boy but this baby is coming anytime and both him and his mom need their Tdap and his mom is gonna be here all the time after baby is born so I would like some time with just hubby and me even if all we do is sleep and cuddle. Especially since he just got back from military police training. Seriously. It drives me nuts. It feels like his mom is here half the time. And when she's not he's either traveling to go get her, at her house, or at work. I don't even want his mom here after baby is born. Or all that much beforehand. I'm an introvert. I want to cuddle with my hubby damn it. We don't even have a spare bedroom in this house. We have a fucking futon. And she gets cold when it's 71 degrees so she turns up the heat to 75 and it gives me hot flashes and I over heat and get miserable. I put up with it at her house but this is my house dammit. I know we will be overwhelmed after baby gets here. But i still want time to bond with just the three of us.

Besides. It takes an hour to get to her house and then he stays there practically all freaking day before coming home. With her. And then he takes a whole day to bring her home after she stays with us for 2-7 days. There's a language barrier too. I don't speak Spanish. She doesn't speak English. And all she wants to do is clean and cook which is fine but I'm very particular about our very expensive cookware. And I don't know what kind of secrets are buried in messes. And our dog won't stop peeing and pooping on the floor in the living room even though she is fully house trained but I don't want his mom to see that. Plus she almost always ends up letting the cat outside which is a big no no until she gets microchipped cause last time she disappeared for four months. And she's always trying to get me to eat more even when I'm full or nauseous.