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Kristina
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I need some advice ladies!

I need some advice ladies!

My husband and I have been together since 2012. He has one daughter from a former girlfriend. My husband and I have one together that's almost three. Currently I am 11 weeks pregnant and we told his parents 2 weeks ago... well they just looked shocked, not really happy. To me it seems they don't want my HUSBAND to have more than two kids, so it seems they don't approve of my pregnancy and it hurts my feelings. I know it's not their relationship but how can I look at this situation were it doesn't hurt my feelings? BTW They are super amazing people and I know they aren't meaning to hurt my feelings but it's hard for them to hide it. Thanks everyone!

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mommyof5kayla

kayla HernandezМама четверых детей, беременна

Yeah it is I was so mad at her till this day I'm still mad because she treats my kids different then her real grandkids so I try to avoid her as much as possible but I'm 32 weeks tomorrow now and she ask my husband how I'm doing and the baby but everything we plan and pick out she doesn't like it or she thinks she could have done it better I'm like whatever I'm throwing my babyshower and imma make my own plans and ideas if she likes it or not like I named my son Matthew Jai and she was like I don't like that name it's stupid I'm like and I don't like your name either but it's not up to you she what me to name my baby a Mexican name because she is from Mexico and I said nope I like the name I picked but yeah my mom had 7 kids and we all have at least 5 or less kids each lol expect me i have 7 now lol

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kebarnes

Kristina

@mommyof5kayla, that is so sad. How far along are you now?

And that is what my husband says, maybe when I start getting bigger things will change. it's just a big difference the way they acted when I was pregnant with my son(happy) and how they are acting with this pregnancy. My mother is the same, she only has 7 grandkids and she still wants me to have more kids lol. She wasn't able to have a big family so I guess she wants her kids to.

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mommyof5kayla

kayla HernandezМама четверых детей, беременна

my mother in law called my husband stupid when we told her about us being pregnant and when we had the miscarriage she seemed happy about and so this time around we didn't tell her till I was almost 6 months pregnant and she still wasn't happy because I don't think she wants my husband to have anymore kids other then the 2 he already has because she spoils them up the ass but I don't care what she has to say I don't talk to her really at all I don't tell her anything about my baby but maybe they will change their minds about it once you get bigger and start to show and get to see the baby and everything my mom has 28 grandkids and she doesn't have to money to spoil them all the same but she does her best and loves them all they same

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kebarnes

Kristina

My mother in law said she is worried she won't be able to love this child as much as my son and step daughter, but then she admitted she felt that same way about my son when I was pregnant with him and my son and her are best friends now haha.

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kebarnes

Kristina

I think it's a money thing for them. Maybe they are worried they won't be able to spoil each one as much?

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keepingupwithhj

R🐘Мама сына-младенца

Why don't they want him to have more than two?

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