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When did all you ladies start a routine with your little ones? I'm trying so hard but he's going through a growth spurt…

When did all you ladies start a routine with your little ones? I'm trying so hard but he's going through a growth spurt and is taking 4oz every 2 hours so the routine isn't working, is it too early?! He's 3 weeks on Wednesday! He normally wakes between 5-7am and sleeps for 2 hours at 12-2/2.30pm and that's him until 7-8pm after a bath and massage, up again at 11-12 for his last feed and occasionally, not always, he'll wake up at 3-4am for a feed and nappy change then he'll sleep again until 5-7 am! But I've found he's over tired as he goes 5-6 hours during the day fighting his sleep, am I best just to let him do as he pleases just now then introduce a routine at a later date?

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taminah87

TaminahМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I would say 3 weeks is early. Try 3/4 months

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beccastirlingx

Becca StirlingМама сына-младенца

@emmaclark, thank you lovely! Xxx

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emmaclark

emmaМама сына-младенца

I can imagine how u feel, I'm in a flat so only next door when he sleeps but dreading when he has to go in his own room at night don't think I'll ever be ready haha😩😩 don't feel bad about it we all need to start somewhere!! just keep doing what ur doing and the routine will come it just takes a bit of time hun xxx

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beccastirlingx

Becca StirlingМама сына-младенца

@emmaclark, yeah, in the morning I'm so squeaky and playful, I'm the same during the day, but at night it's all quite and all the lights are out! He gets his last bottle in the dark getting his leg tickled and he falls asleep! I've also just put him to sleep in his crib upstairs while I stay down stairs with the monitor and I hate it! He's never slept alone😩 I feel bloody terrible, but he hasn't been sleeping in his crib so I'm having to get him used to it! Xx

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emmaclark

emmaМама сына-младенца

I just let Lewis work out for himself, the only thing I established from the beginning was day and night. first thing in the morning I will always say good morning to him in the cheeriest voice possible lol and we play during the day etc, and at night I talk quietly and keep lights low. I give him his bottle before bed in the dark with just a night light in our bedroom and 9/10 times he'll go straight to sleep. he used to wake at 4am for a bottle then down till 8 but now he will sleep from around 10 till 8-9. every other night we give him a bath too! during the day he will take a few short naps in between bottles so I run around mad trying to shower and clean the house hahaha! xx

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hannah2310

Hannah LouiseМама дочки-младенца

I'm just going to let Scarlett take the lead, it seems to be working at the minute x

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theasmummy

JennyМама троих детей

My wee girl put herself into a routine too @sophgreenx she used to go 3 hourly during the day and take 4oz. She goes longer now she's on solids but still only takes about 4oz. Every baby is different

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sophgreenx

SophieМама сына-младенца

Let him do as he wants and his routine will sort itself, Seth used to sleep all the time and now he sleeps through the night and take 2 naps in the day the longest lasting 2 hours, obviously every baby is different but I didn't put Seth into one he did it himself x

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beccastirlingx

Becca StirlingМама сына-младенца

@mrsripper, I suppose they are! Well were at 3 hours since his last feed!!!!! That's a record for today!! 😂x

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mrsripper

rebecca hattle

I wish my Lil man would take more and go longer but nope he is happy with his 4 throughout the day lol @beccastirlingx I suppose bubbas are ruling the roost for now x

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beccastirlingx

Becca StirlingМама сына-младенца

@mrsripper, he's making himself sick because he's so greedy! I've tried the dummy thing but he just spits it out! X

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mrsripper

rebecca hattle

It's a bit early hun I have started introducing bath every night after his 7-9 pm feed and then he will sleep for 6 hours other than that my Lil man is still feeding 4oz every 4 hours if he winges before for his feed I give him a dummy to carry him till the 4 th hour and then offer him 5 oz but he only is taking 5 oz at his 3-4 am feed x @beccastirlingx in regards to timings I would just try and stretch his feeds where you can 4oz every 2 hours is a lot xx

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beccastirlingx

Becca StirlingМама сына-младенца

@jod1303, okay, thank you Hun! @winterbaby95 Awww that's so good!!! Xx

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winterbaby95

BethanyМама дочки-младенца

Like right now..she knows she is about to have a bath :) xx She starts rubbing her eyes around 7pm

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jod1303

jodyМама двоих (1 год, 1 год), ждёт третьего

id introduce it later. every baby is different some will get themself into a routine. im sure experts say 12 weeks xx

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beccastirlingx

Becca StirlingМама сына-младенца

His growth spurt has knocked everything off and he's so crabbit come bath time because he keeps fighting sleep! Not going to give up though! Xx

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winterbaby95

BethanyМама дочки-младенца

I started doing one with Maya between 2-3 weeks :) Once I had come out the hospital and settled down xx

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