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Kenzie
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How do you decide when to start your maternity leave? My manager wants me to put in my time off request soon. Im…

How do you decide when to start your maternity leave? My manager wants me to put in my time off request soon. Im entitled to 6 weeks and I really wanna work up to my due date as much as possible so I can spend the most time with my son before going back to work. What did you other mommies do? I know that sometimes there are complications or you get induced early, i just want as much time as possible with my baby boy.

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godsjoi

JoieМама дочки (4 года), беременна (22 нед.)

I'm working up until a few days before my due date, but I don't get PTO and I'm taking 12 weeks and then going back part time

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kenzfaye47

KenzieВ ожидании первенца

She said she is willing to work with me cause ive got awhile still and who knows what will happen in that time. I wanna go as close to my due date as possible

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expectingz

AshleyВ ожидании первенца

work up till that time, they cannot make you go on leave early so you have to come back earlier, I wouldn't go for it. Most daycares are 6 wks and up anyway. Tell her to have a sit down!

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kenzfaye47

KenzieВ ожидании первенца

Yeah! She told me they would be finding someone to replace me when im gone which made me nervous

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koukla85

melissa

I'm in the same situation. Only getting 6 weeks off. They kinda just didn't put me on the schedule after my due date which bothers me as I most likely will go late but at the same time they need to protect themselves bc my shift can't be left open. I'm curious as well as the proper way of handling this

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Как я себя чувствую?

Anyways ill figure out how i feel as time progresses. And do whatever i decide to do. This my body my baby and my health possibly at risk. So much easier to shame when it's not you in the position.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?