Not sure what to do.. Fiancé an I were talking about how he didn't wish me a happy Mother's Day. An…

pick and chose your battles.. sometimes it's not worth the stress but if it's gonna eat at you then say something (:

Maybe he doesn't consider you a mom yet because you're still pregnant, sooo many people said that to me last year when I was still pregnant with my son, it's really annoying I know lol

@tiffanyxomarie1, yeah but he said he doesn't do that kinda stuff like wish people things yet Ik he does it to his dad for Father's Day an now Ik he said it to her an not me.. Just frustrating plus we got into a fight last night an ya😕

just mention it. don't make it a fight or too big of a deal, just say hey, I know you said you don't do those kinds of things, but it would make me feel loved and appreciated if you did

@ftm2babyc, see when I brought it up I was like you never said happy Mother's Day to me an he's like i don't do that I asked why an all he said was cause I don't.. Like you said it to the lady who bitched at me for not being your maid an tried to break us up like it makes me feel hurt an sad an I wanna bring it up but I'm scared cause than he'll bitch I read his messages so I kinda wanna wait til he's at work or something

@ftm2babyc, that's a great way to put it

he shouldn't bitch that you're reading his messages that's something that comes with a relationship (it should anyway ) and as far as waiting until he's at work, you mean to text it to him? because I do that with my bf if I can't get the strength to say it to his face, and its okay to do that once in awhile, its getting it out and communicating how you feel. don't let him make you feel like you're wrong for feeling like this or for looking at his phone.

My husband never let's me forget our first mothers day together. He told me Happy Mothers day and I asked him why he told me that cause I wasn't his mother and wasn't trying to be. Lol, when the kids were too lil to understand we would buy something FROM the kids but never for each other from each other for mothers/father's day.

My point is, maybe that's how he sees it. I agree you should tell him how it made you feel but I wouldn't push it on him to feel the same way about those holidays as you do. Pick your battles, cause in the long run there's way more important things to stress about.

dont wish him a happy fathers day. and say the same damn thing to him. show him what it feels like.