even though I appreciate my inlaws they have taken it upon themselves to plan my baby shower for there side they have not asked my opinion I don't know anything that's happening I just feel I should be more involved even though it is her first grandchild we've only met once
My sister planned my baby shower, I knew just as much as the guest going in there, which was the theme. That was it.
look at it as a gift, really one less stress. I am receiving 2 showers one for my side - (sister is planning) and one for my husbands. I am so thankful for my MIL planning the entire thing and keep it a surprise. I would be pulling my hair out trying to help plan both right now