*sorry, rant* So fucking tired of having to explain typical adult behavior to my MIL! She's hosting…
*sorry, rant* So fucking tired of having to explain typical adult behavior to my MIL! She's hosting a baby shower with my mom, but called me to give me updates? "Well I didn't know if she was working." Then TEXT her and she'll read it once she gets up. (Still hasn't btw)
Then, trying to coordinate her getting Matthew tomorrow. Can't nail down a time, so I tell her to let me know later today. Nothing by 7:30, so I text and ask, and she picks a time smack in the middle of nap time! (She's well aware of typical nap time) I adjust the plan and make sure to say it might work out like that, and then she gives me the run down of all the projects they're planning on doing tomorrow (again)! Wtf? I didn't hold back this time and told her I understand you've got stuff to do, but you need to realize you might have to put some stuff on hold to make time for him. No response.
Seriously? She's been a grandmother for over 11 years. This is not a new concept. Neither is being an adult. I'm trying to remind myself to be gracious, but we live in the same fucking town, yet she only sees him on average every other month. Oh and she's retired. 😡 Rant over.
Courtney Warner·
Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
Well now my parents see my daughter every single day and my in laws see her maybe every other week or so no difference in love its just hey I came to the realization I'm not calling nobody you know where I stay and just like my parents come everyday and pick up my daughter yall can come for her to like on days off and if you dont call I'm surely not calling you. I was just like you at first then I said f it. Best of luck my love
Heather·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)
@courtneywarner, except I don't call anyone unless they've already called me. From the get go I decided I can't force them to be involved. It wouldn't bother me except that 1) my MIL manages to go see my nieces all the time (8 hrs away) and 2) she complains about "missing" him but never changes to make more time for him. I'm just tired of her blatantly favoring all the other grandchildren but bitches to me about being busy and not seeing him enough. 😒 My boy doesn't deserve that, and he's smart enough to figure it out one day. Thanks girl.