I've got a question for women pregnant with their second child. If you had a hard time conceiving your first and decided…

@canaryv, thanks so much love you as well

That's a good number :) I hope you have the family you want :)@mommyagain

@canaryv, 6 or 7

We would love 4-5 :) and you?@mommyagain

@canaryv, How many babies you all want?

@canaryv, yes they are love I'm amazed we push 6+ pound babies out and how they live in such small space for 9 or 10 months in water at that!

Thank you for that :) I really appreciate it. You're right, in the end it's going to be me and my husband raising our children. However many I'm blessed with 💛 & that's really interesting :) our bodies are so incredible :)@mommyagain

@canaryv, It did for me it is natural birth control it don't work for everybody though. My doctor told me that breastfeeding would only cover me for 4 months but he was wrong in my case it lasted until she weaned

@canaryv, I don't tell people what to do but by you having complications getting pregnant DON'T TAKE BIRTH CONTROL it's not for us our bodies are already going through we don't need to add to the problem seriously and I think there's nothing wrong with you trying to get pregnant again hell I encourage you because you don't know how long it will take you again and I look at it like this you and their daddy is the only ones who has to take care of them F everybody else opinions. I want a big family too I'm older and want my kids back to back so I have to get this done we may try again when this baby is 5 or 6 months old because I will not be popping babies in my 40's 2 dowm 4 more to go for us

Aw I'm so glad you got your beautiful little rainbow baby! So breast feeding can prevent pregnancy? Huh, you learn something new every day :) @mommyagain

@canaryv, I was happy as hell I tried for so many years and 6 miscarriages later I got pregnant with my daughter in 2014 after finding out about vitex I call her my vitex baby and then my husband tried to get me pregnant some months after but it wasn't working I was scared that it would take another long stretch of years but found out it was because she was nursing girl once she weaned herself I got a period that month and that was it next month tested and lawd I was pregnant again

There's so many out there, it's insane. I saw a birth control ad on tv and it said if you get pregnant while having it than you can lose the pregnancy along with infertility. @karnamarie but I'm glad you got your beautiful little blessings :)

How do you feel about being pregnant again? To me, I really wouldn't care if I got pregnant within a year or a little after a year once this one is born. Some people may down on me for that but I really want a big family and I'm worried birth control will prevent that. @mommyagain

@canaryv I have tried everything. Because I have problems with hormones I can't take anything with hormones in it. I was told because of that and a tilted uterus it was going to be hard for me to conceive, but apparently not as hard as I thought. I wasn't on birth control but my then fiance and I did good old fashioned Condoms. When the doctor said it would be hard we stopped using them. With the second I tried the IUD and I was having abdominal pain from it so I had it removed then had the nuva ring and was having major headaches from it so I decided to stop and see if the nuva ring was the cause (must have been because I never had one after that) plus my husband and I decided to try for #2.

Yeah I'm feeling the same way about it lol whenever I get pregnant after this baby will be as good a time as any. Birth control is a little scary @smiles2 & @cubanese I don't think it's my ovulation that I'm missing only because I'm really in tune with my body and can tell right away when I'm ovulating. I used to have a thyroid problem but it's gone now and now idk what the problem is lol. I guess God is my birth control 😂

I declined birth control due to having problems getting pregnant and I conceived this pregnancy 9 months later probably would have been earlier but me breastfeeding acted as a natural birth control for me

I don't think I will use get on birth control this time around. we will just have to be extra carfull. lol. if we have another, then we do I guess. but I think birth control really mess with me and I hated it.

I wasn't on birth control before I conceived my first and we were not trying either but i have been with my husband for 8 yrs before we got pregnant with our first. so I would say we had a hard time conceiving our first. I got on birth control after having my first, then got off a yr later to try for our second and it took us 3 yrs to conceive this one. birth control messed my periods all up, and trying as hard as we were I think stressed me and my body out a bit also.

Wow that's insane! I've never been on birth control and it's taken at least a year both times to get pregnant and I'm worried what'll happen if I get on birth control after having this baby. They say you're most fertile after having a baby but I'm worried maybe there's an underlying reason why I don't get pregnant easily@cubanese & that's great :) some women aren't as lucky and I'm a little nervous about birth control. Which do you use?@karnamarie

Took the same amount of time with my second as it did my first. 6 months is my lucky timeline from the time I stop birth control til I convinced