@mommabeardurso, exactly. And right now it's mostly my mother...like I tell her I can't do something because it either hurts or isnt good for me anyways and she's all like I did all this plus more and I had three kids. I hate it when she for that because I'm like that was you and not me...every pregnancy is different. I have to wear my husbands clothes too...the few things I do own that for that are comfortable my mom will point out the moment I walk out 9th that don't go together or match why don't you wear something else. She keeps telling me I need to walk more walk more..I went to l&d they don't me not to walk so much since I'm already hurting and just now she made me feel bad because I wouldn't take my daughter to the park and go for a walk with her. Now I'm laying in my bed with my a.c. on blast because I'm so tired and hot and my feet ankles and hands are swollen. Plus i fell like imma get sick from over doing it and she's just like get over it it's good for you and her shut up or 9th be quiet get over it. My husband knows I stuggle with my weight so we are going to start working out an getting to a good place together that way I have good support.

I completely understand where you are coming from. I was 112 before my daughter and gained 60 pounds with her. My Mexican family always made comments like, "oh you're finally getting a body" rude things like that. I only lost 20 pounds after her and got pregnant again. Now whenever I see them they tell me, "wow this kid is making me so fat" they don't see how hurtful it is. If I say something that they just come up with ,"wow you're so sensitive or damn you're hormonal" which makes it worst. Anyways girl I am at 190 pounds, have no clothes so I currently wear my husband's 😒 my feet hurt from the weight and I am super tired but I promised myself I would lose it after this baby. Keep your head up and hopefully you can go back to your healthy self soon.