exactly. they may try to boss us but we gotta put our foot down and tell them no its fine i got this. my boyfriends mom gets a bit bossy with my son and all i do is ignore her and continue doing my mommy dutys:) even when my daughter arrives here, both my kids are my responsibility and i will raise them the way i want to raise them, not the grandparents. @karramaej

@mommy_of_two1994,

all we can do is ignore the ignorance. We know when we are in pain and we know whats best for our little ones.

i agree with you on that! i hate it when people tell me what i can or cannot fo because its not "healthy" for my baby. um, my midwife keeps track of mine and my babys health so theres no need to bash a pregnant mother.. my mother in law even gets at me cause she hates it when i do dishes or she doesnt like it when she sees me holding my son(2) she tells me that im pregnant and i need to relax. yes im pregnant but being pregnant doesnt make myself handicapped! i still do normal things like any other unpregnant woman would be doing.. i rest when my body tells me that i need to. my son is 2 and hes still a baby he falls asleep in the car of course im gonna have to carry him to his bed. my son doesnt really weigh that much but i just hate it how everyone thinks i cant be doing ANYTHING ! its so annoying .. -_-

@bree_55, I just dont understand why people have to add stress to preggies. It bugs me because they hear one "fact" about one pregnant women and they assume it applies to every single one. Then they argue >:/ . The added stress is way worse then anything. Im already about to punch my coworker and I have 12 more hours of my shift. Wish I had your fuck em attitude. c:

That is super annoying.. I got shit for drinking coffee from people too.. & mine was I stopped working out because the swelling was to much on my feet so I know how it feels to have someone nag you.. fuck em..