I already told my boyfriend I'm sorry but I'm not trying to be mean or selfish but i don't want his mom to think she could control the way I'm going to take care and raise my kid . Everyone is different and everyone will raise their kid how they think they should raise them . I know I'm still young but I know what's coming. I took care and helped my mother with my siblings since I was 11years old . I'll take her advice but will not let no one tell me what I need to do with my baby !