Try not to take it too hard him I had three before my son came and my parents and OH never got excited they always said they don't want to talk about it Incase it happens again... I used to get upset but then after 20 weeks they all mucked in and got super excited I think people mentally prepare for the worst and hope for the best xx

same thing happened to my friend she keeps having miscarriages and she feel pregnant not long ago and her other half was happy but he didn't wanna get his hopes up and it just happened again

Thanks guys I've talked to him. You re all right. He's just scared. And a man lol xxx

He most likely is scared/upset of it happening again....so doesn't really want to think about it...the reason foe not seeming happy xx

Now that I've had time to think about it. Men tend to deal with things in different ways to women. Men don't often like to express emotions/how they are feeling....so sometimes say things to cover up what they are really feeling. Like the other girls said...he didnt mean it that way xx

totally agree with what @tuftyturtle said x

He probably didn't mean it badly. probably just a man way of saying he's worried about it happening again. and doesn't want to get his hopes up and be hurt again

my partner said he couldn't get excited in case the same happened and tbh I felt the same way. I'm excited now but still very anxious xx

A complete dick head?

Oh my god! I would kick him to the curb if I was you! That is terrible! So sorry hun! What a dick! Hope you let him know that he crossed the line! xx

men can b so insensitive my lovely try not to get too dwn abt it. xxx