Thank you. I feel better :) @vee_bayybee_ @ria03 @christineg

your beautiful. men just Have needs. my boyfriend Masturbates prob twice a day hes just a horny person. dont feel hurt in anyway

@arich13, men jack off all the time!! It's natural...don't feel like your not attractive if anything your even more beautiful because of all the wonderful change's your body is going threw like bigger boobs and longer healthier hair!!!😍😃 don't read to much into it bet he feels more uncomfortable than you being as he got caught lol

Awe don't feel insecure about it. My husband told me he does it in the shower but it's had nothing to do with that he's not attracted to me. Men are pretty straight forward, so if your really worried, just ask him. It could be something as simple as he knew you were tired and didn't wanna bug you. And the fact that you caught him could have just embarrassed him. Communication is key in the relationship so just let him know how it made you feel and you just need to know if your worries are justified 👍🏽

@msj1996, I completely agree with your point on being with someone and them acting like a child not being able to control their hormones. my husband addressed my feelings about it and doesn't do it at all. he will resort to going straight to sleep if I'm not up for it. talk to him about it and really express how you're feeling

@arich13, it hurts my feelings when I find out my husband masturbate too. We are married for goodness sake, and he's not 12 anymore. No I don't always feel up to it but I think he should be able to control his hormones. I've caught him masturbating in the bed next to me and that's something that really hurts. That's just my view on if.

he's probably embarrassed about it and maybe he forgot to flush. I wouldn't read too much into it, maybe the mood struck him out of nowhere while you were sleeping. a little tmi but I'm guilty of going down stairs to take care of myself while my husband snores loudly in our bed lol. it just happens but it doesn't mean I don't love him or desire him. it just means I got horny and I had to take care of myself. lol takes me 2 minutes.

@maybaby2016, he would have had sex with me and I would have with him. We do it at least twice a week. He knows I don't feel comfortable in my own skin right now. I know masterbation is normal but usually he's horny all night and then goes to sleep with a boner. Last night there was no indication of being horny. He left all the clues out which he's never done. Like he wanted to get caught. Why is he lying?

You are beautiful and he may have done that because you were sleeping 😊 nothing to be insecure about! Im sure he loves you just as much as before the pregnancy (probably more now than ever) and might be embarrassed lol. Use it against him haha when he doesn't do dishes or does something you don't like (not this situation) be like, at least I'm not jacking off into a toilet for my wife to find out 😂

masturbation is natural, is it the act itself that has you upset or are you just feeling insecure because he won't have sex with you? would you have been willing to have sex? I need to know the full story before I can actually offer you any advice. you can't really blame him for masturbating if you're not willing to be sexually active with him. Regardless, he should have been honest with you about it though.

be straight up I saw this... I'm not comfortable with you lying and I'm not feeling the best about my body these days... I need you to be attentive to me... no need to ask why just address the hurt and move on