I gave my bf 20$ to get back & forth from work for 3 days , and now he doesn't have enough money to go to work I don't…

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Ohh ok now I understand at least your able to keep him on a set budget of your liking @mygiftof2016

It's not s continuous thing but I guess he did expect me to give him more money but im not obligated to so I didn't @shawtypop

he does def work for it but he want me stay home so that's y i take his checks so it is his but he want me home so make it so i can and stop spending so much!

well yea I understand that but it sounds to be like he expects it from you if he's getting an attitude and its a continuous thing.

It's not really about giving a grown man your money it's more so as a gf/wife when your partner doesn't have it your supposed to be able to help out sometimes @shawtypop

I get the same exact thing just because you work hard doesn't mean you don't have responsibilities & I would live to just spend money on whatever makes me happy but life doesn't work like that at all men are crazy @desireeanne

Your man definitely needs a reality check because without you how would he survive if your constantly giving him money @mygiftof2016

Why are yall even giving a grown ass man your hard earned money?

Nope. I get the "well I work hard." I get that and I completely understand, but you can't just blow money because you work hard. I'm like there's plenty of shit I would LOVE to have especially being pregnant now and things I'd love to get our baby. Just doesn't work like that. Ugh. I dread paying bills but we do what we have to.

oh n he had 15! this morning out of his other pants he's like babe babe. I kept my eyes shut and was like that's plenty youre NOT taking my debit card idc if it's payday!

thats y this week he getting 100$ that's it! like dude you can't spend what I make n expect I can save smh# like he gotta spend exactly what I give him wheither it be 20$ or 200$! wtf makes me heated cuz I'll not but something to have money then it's blown anyway so I guess ima just get what I want money be gone anyway so y not lol

Exactly it's like men can't save if their lives depended on it @desireeanne

My husband sucks with money too. Then he gets all pissy when we have to count pennies. I'm like if you would just stick to a plan, we wouldn't go through this every month. Damn.

Wow that is ridiculous I would be so mad I don't understand how they spend money @mygiftof2016

dude! my man suck with money! I have hiim 250 Friday Monday he had 150 left (I bought everything this weekend) then he didn't end up out of town so I paid for food gas and bought him a carton of butts and yesterday he couldn't even buy me a coffee to bring home! like wtf is ur money?! oh and I paid his phone on my debit card like wtf omg ima snap!