****WARNING***RANT****
39.6 I'll be 40 weeks Saturday. My doctor is all messed up in the head and won't check to see if I'm dialating or dialated at all. I've been having contractions for over a week...last night and today they started to get stronger. I asked my husband when he got off work if we could have my parents watch our daughter since they are in town so we could go to l&d and have them check me...because my doc won't and Ayden hadn't moved as much today( it made me worried). Well instead my parents wanted to go to the casino and his step mom and dad were no where to be found...so we ended up having to wait till my parents came back. They didn't get home till around 8, just happens to be my daughters bed time. To top it all off his dad shows up and then he tells me he doesn't want to go because it's the hospital and it will take forever. The entire time my parents, his dad, and his mom(who is texting me the whole time) are whining why you wanna go in?! What's the point of going in?! But will say all damn day every day since I hit 37 weeks when you gonna finally pop out that kid?! Why don't you do something to pop him out?! Ugh I'm so irritated right now I could scream and cry and punch everyone and everything all at the same time! Not to mention since my parents got here they have done nothing but treat me like a child and keep agreeing with my father inlaw that I eat to much sugar and I love food to much. Like really?!! I'm sitting right here 9 months pregnant and you wanna sit here talking shit about me making me feel bad! But the moment I say something I'm out of control and to angry and need to chill out. Ugh!!!! So frustrated with everyone and everything I just want to get in my car and leave but I know I would get my ads chewed out by everyone! I'm supposed to be in a stress free environment and not getting worked up over anything and relaxing and all everyone is doing is missing me off an stressing me out. I cant take this crap anymore. I don't want to bring my child into this kind of place where no one cares for my feelings and disregarded what I say or want.
Sorry so long if you did read this i really just needed to vent since I have no one to talk to.
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excuse my language but fuck them dude ur taking it very well for being this far along
@reznor, thank you. It does help when you get to vent. I've told my husband that before he still just uses it as an excuse to not go or do what I want. Its okay though I will just go by myself tomorrow even though I would have liked him with me. plus I'm hoping it will not only give me peice of mind but a little bit of time by myself away from everyone and everything.
but I definitely have these moments too that's what all us mommies are here for. cause we've been there one time or another so vent away☺
I'm sorry to hear this. but I thought I'd throw in there that you will be seen right away. the hospital puts pregnant women straight up because there's a baby involved . I'd go into the er and they'll see you in l&d right away. just thought I'd say it.
@pretty_n_pink, thanks. I feel bad like I'm over reacting..but then it's like I'm the one having a baby and y'all are just acting like assholes
You don't deserve that. I'm sorry you're going through that
GENDER POST! ??????
Alright mommas for everyone whose going to be finding out gender sometime in November or later..lets get a post going and keep each other updated. And for everyone who has already found out post below what you thought you were going to have and what you are actually having! ?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
(Thread Closed) Let’s go out with a bang
Let all the dramas unfold! I blame Jessica Alba
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
@moonchild, thanks it's because if I don't then I will stress even more and I can't do that to me or my three year old. she knows when I'm up set and it makes her upset.