okay, I need to rant.... so one of my family members is pregnant with her 3rd child. she has two…
okay, I need to rant....
so one of my family members is pregnant with her 3rd child. she has two girls already who are 4&6, but she doesn't take care of them, one of them is living with her parents right now because my family member says she cant handle her...she doesn't work at the moment because she lost her job due to getting arrested for being intoxicated and hitting her boyfriend... but since she doesn't work, she stays home all day with her girls, but she doesn't watch them, instead she sleeps. my reason for being so upset is the fact that she doesn't take care of the kids she has now, why does she want to bring another innocent child into this world, just to have them grow up and not care about them???? it hurts my heart because I know how she is with her two girls already, and she's going to be the same way with this one. It seems like ever since I found out I was pregnant (in February) she has gotten jealous that somebody else in the family is getting attention. I'm just so frustrated because I know that this child is going to live the same life as her other two girls and it makes so sad. sorry for ranting, I just can't talk to anybody else about it and I needed to get it off my chest. ugh!
Sam G.·
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The matriarchs of my family Grandmas, great aunts, and even my mom and aunts would not allow this type of behavior in my family. Is there a grandmother person who can talk to her and give guidance? I hope things improve for those little girls.
shannaa24·
yea there's some horrible woman out there who do this. I don't understand it either. my sister in law has done it. 3 different fathers to her kids. well 4, because she had an abortion with one. my grandmother who's in her 70s has my niece. and her mother has her other daughter and son. sis in.law has one little girl as well, which is her last child. she's finally got her head on straight and sobar, since she's been with this guy. but she doesn't take care of any of the other kids. she did drugs with two of her pregnancies. me and my family could never understand her. just keep popping out babies that she couldn't take care of and her doing drugs with them. there's woman out there like her who don't deserve to have kids.
Kaili·
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my family has tried to talk to her, my grandmothergrandmother's, aunts, her own mother, she just doesn't listen and doesn't care. it really just breaks my heart.