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kata120615
Catalina·Мама троих детей
Vent: So I went to ER on Tuesday due to having strong contractions since Sunday afternoon. So I went in they determined that I could've just over stressed my body and didn't drink enough water but that I was dilated and baby was breech so no signs of labor. They recommended that I should just be on bed rest for a few days to let my body recover and drink plenty of fluids. I explained this to my family since I live in my parents house and usually I help clean and cook , I let them know I wouldn't be able to do much until my follow up with my doctor next week so she can clear me. At first I thought they understood and were okay with it ,but come yesterday my mom starts throwing a fit and insulting me and saying that "I haven't done shit ! That just because I'm pregnant doesn't mean I'm handy cap and so on " , I ignored it and stayed quiet although it hurt my feelings because she say the pain and discomfort I've been in . Now today my 15 year old sister stayed home from school after I told my dad that she should go to school since she's failing and doesn't really help out around the house at all , well her response was "why don't you get your pregnant fatass up and clean then" that's when I told her that she knew I couldn't because I was told to be on bed rest and she then responds " oh wow ! Your dying " in a very sarcastic tone . I left it alone and just stood quite again , this afternoon my mom comes home for lunch and I was feeding my 4 year old son and also eating myself , I cleaned up after ourselves and served my mom lunch , well when's she's done she starts saying that I had to was he plates and the dishes that were in the sink , and my sister jumps in and and starts saying "yeah washing a plate won't kill you! " at that point I felt hurt and offended so I got up and did as they said and just cleaned up the whole kitchen while I was at it . While I was doing that my mom starts talking to me about something she saw on FB and I completely ignored her and told that I didn't care what everyone else does with their life , that all I care about is getting the hell out of this hell hole to which my sister responds with calling me a bitch . That there just made me want to break down and cry because I feel like a stranger with my own family, that all I'm good for is to clean up after them and cook for them.... And it hurts because my son has to watch me cry and hear how they speak to me and he's starting to notice more and more , and he tells them to not be so mean to me and to not call me names. Idk what to besides just cry and feel like a complete loser because I can't just pick our stuff up and leave , because hubby and I are still saving up for our own place. I just don't want to have my kids in such a hateful environment
12.05.2016
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kata120615
Catalina·Мама троих детей
I completely agree with you @gcpaschal
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kata120615
Catalina·Мама троих детей
Yes definitely God has his eyes on everything @lexy03212015
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gcpaschal
Gwendolyn Paschal·Мама дочки (9 лет)
You don't deserve to be treated like that either. Most times when people treat others like that in my opinion it's because they envy them. It's hard to thrive in that type of environment.
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lexy03212015
Alexis·Мама дочки (9 лет)
Amen! I totally agree. It's messed up the way every family acts. And like @gcpaschal said. Trust and believe that God has His eye on EVERYTHING.
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kata120615
Catalina·Мама троих детей
Definitely will be doing the same once I get out @gcpaschal because I don't think I want my kids around that negative energy. And it's not so much my dad it's more of my mom that lets her talk down to me
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kata120615
Catalina·Мама троих детей
Yeah and they probably will never be there @lexy03212015 and that's just something no have to deal with but I'll continue to do me and just pray that I get out of here soon
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gcpaschal
Gwendolyn Paschal·Мама дочки (9 лет)
Just keep praying(if you believe) and keep stacking your money. It's a shame your parents let your younger sister disrespect you like that. I can relate and I stacked my money, got out and never returned. God will bless you for doing the right thing.
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lexy03212015
Alexis·Мама дочки (9 лет)
Yes I completely understand. But mentally sweetheart people aren't there. They don't understand and they aren't in their right mind. But leave it to God to change them. Nothing goes unseen my love. Just pray for them.
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kata120615
Catalina·Мама троих детей
Yeah , your completely right @tayek
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kata120615
Catalina·Мама троих детей
I don't expect anything from them and it doesn't surprise me anymore but you would think that they would be a little understanding since it does involve both my well being and their grandchildren well being you know. @lexy03212015
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missing225user
missing225user·Мама двоих (9 лет, 18 лет)
I agree with @lexy03212015 They will not change until they change, but you'll break your heart every day waiting for them to appreciate you when they aren't mature enough.
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lexy03212015
Alexis·Мама дочки (9 лет)
I know exactly how you feel. My advice would be to stop expecting so much from them. I know it sounds backwards. But if you keep expecting positivity from negativity you're NEVER going to be happy. I had the same relationship with my mom and I stopped expecting her to act like an adult. When she did hurtful things it didn't even surprise me.
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kata120615
Catalina·Мама троих детей
I'm trying my best not to stress about it but it still hurts to feel unwanted by the people you love the most. @lexy03212015
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lexy03212015
Alexis·Мама дочки (9 лет)
I'm sorry I hear that. I know this may sound cliche but try not to stress out because you want to keep that baby in there for as long as possible. It sucks that they treat you that way.
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