Ladies I'm going insane!!! So i got this job and I'm so exited about it. I can work as little as 2…
Ladies I'm going insane!!! So i got this job and I'm so exited about it. I can work as little as 2 days a month or as much as 7 a week. I want to work 3-4 days a week during the summer then cut back during school. My fiancé told me he can't handle watching our daughter more than a day a week so that's all I'm allowed to work!! So I talked to his mom about it and she agrees with him! That I couldn't handle working more than that either and have a 15 month old. Am I crazy for wanting to do more?! Before I had my daughter i juggled 4 jobs and school full time just fine...
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wait, he doesn't want to watch his kid? I think that's bs. If he won't watch her then i say stand your ground and look into childcare
ashley·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@arivera64, he says he can't handle watching her more than a day a week. But he doesn't work or have summer classes. He has nothing going on this summer
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soooooo basically he's a jerk who wants to hang out and bit be stuck watching his child. Girl go work and tell him to watch his kid or pay for child care.
Heather·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (35 нед.)
Uhh...seriously? Ditto @arivera64 . That's crazy.
ashley·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@arivera64, @mommagotbump16 I'm just so confused why even his parents are backing up this craziness and trying to keep me from working...I need to work because I want to move out and leave this mess...
Heather·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (35 нед.)
Ooohh...so basically they want y'all to stay and be dependent on them? 😩😳 @ashbabash18
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Because some people live to put others down. His mother may have not had what you have when she was your age and is being jealous. Or maybe she feels you took her son away. She'll do nothing to help you. Your fiance is obviously immature and doesn't want to deal with his responsibilities. Either you have to step up, or live with it. You have a choice. Otherwise they are controlling you.
ashley·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@mommagotbump16, yes they're trying to keep us dependent on them. They don't want either of us to work. His mom wants me to work for her at home instead of getting a job. @arivera64 I think his mom just needs to feel needed so she keeps is dependent on her. I think she has resentment toward me because I got pregnant by her son out of wedlock. She brings that up sometimes.
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smh Well why can't she feell needed and watch the baby?
ashley·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@arivera64, she committed to watch his brothers son and she says she can't watch both
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Bs my mil watches my 2,4,and6 yr old 5 days a week. You need to put your foot down and show your independance and strength or get out of that situation.