Well I just got a hurtful reminder to not share my concerns with anyone, especially my family. Gee thanks mom for reminding me that we are in "no position to have a baby". Or my grandma telling me I'm just going to have a miscarriage again so I shouldn't be excited. Whatever , my husbands unit is holding a baby shower today so I'm going to try to get my spirits up for that.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
So my bf just beat the hell out of my dog and idk what to do now. I want to leave but don't have my paper yet to take my dog with me anywhere I go
So I just found out I'm pregnant with my second baby on Thursday and I told my mom on Friday after my fiance told his mom and dad and today I was talking with my mom and if baby is a boy I'm not going to have a baby shower but if it's a girl it's going to be a small baby shower and my mom told me that I can't have another baby shower that it's now how it works. So do I have a shower or not? Any advice?
Birth Plan Rant I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Kimberly·
Tell your family to f-off! Those are all lies! Don't listen to negative people they have issues if they wanna bring you down. Honestly tell them you need distance and if they aren't: feeding you, financing you, or fucking you they can fuck off and shut the hell up! You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
why are you having a baby shower soo early. Just asking... not judging at all
Hanna·
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A baby is always a blessing. Yes it's hard and there may be some struggling, who the hell doesn't struggle in some ways when they have a baby, but at the end of the day there is a beautiful baby that loves you so much. Don't listen to those people, family or not.
Nikita·
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Your baby is a blessing, don't let them steal your joy (:
Shani·
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@butterly234, thanks. That's what I'm going to have to do. you know, it hurts because my mom and I used to be close but now she just reminds me daily that she thinks I'm a failure. I'm definitely going to tell them I need distance.
Shani·
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@mybabyloves, lol no worries. My husbands unit's family readiness office (Marine Corp) only holds one mass baby shower a year for all pregnant women and moms with babies 6 mon and under. So its not for me specifically , there's 45 other women going as well lol. Haha I didn't want to go at first, but my hubby insists I show up
Shani·
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@hanna_lynn, exactly. I mean i know I'm not perfect but gosh I'm obviously trying everything I can to better prepare. They really make it hard to be stay excited. @royalty thanks! I'll certainly try not too
Sarai·
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That totally sucks because it's family! But don't even worry or stress about it, I think distance would be good for now. I say go to this baby shower and meet other moms and get excited for free baby gifts! Lol.. Best of luck momma.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@queenwatson ohh well that's pretty cool. I was 19 when I got pregnant with my son, homeless due to his dad not paying rent and saying he was. I now have two kids and pregnant with my third. I am engaged and own my house. No one supported me when they found out with my first. Just do your best you can for your baby and prove all the sceptics wrong. You can do it