Sooooooo my cervix is still soft but no baby. I could of waited because getting the cervix checked…

agreed! I just had it done for the first time yesterday and that was not fun.

I haaaate cervix checks. So much. I had to get one around 28 weeks cause I was having cramping and the doc I saw at the ER wanted to make sure all was good and thankfully it was just normal cramping. But my midwife doesn't even do cervix checks. I'm glad about it but I'm curious as to whether or not I'm dilated at all

I'm only 13 weeks so I have a long ways to go before this I think right? how painful is it !? 😳 I'm trying to prepare myself for everything lol ftm

@kp_111516, it's a lot of pressure to it it's not that much pain really, just uncomfortable and yes you have a loonngggg ways to go until that lol. @emkasting lucky lol @marleas.mommy it felt like my doctor fisted me! 😢😢😢 lol

@kp_111516 unless you have complications like bleeding or cramping that is abnormal then yeah you have quite a while to go! Some people don't find it uncomfortable at all but I personally find it extremely painful. Thankfully cervix checks are pretty quick so the pain doesn't last long but I freaking hate it

@daij that's how it felt for me too and my doc has such small hands!