Maybe TMI.. But how soon after giving birth & having an episiotomy did you resume sex? Did it hurt & did it cause extra tearing?
Didn't 'hurt' but took a min to get comfortable, no tearing lol
I waited the 6 weeks, i wanted to be safe versus take the risk of creating a bigger problem
three weeks , hurt like hell , and didn't tear I think . still somewhat Hurts now
it took me a good 3 months before it didn't hurt to have sex.