im only 14+ weeks and im terrified of giving birth😢 ive been having nightmares about how badly its…

You're not the only one, I'm trying to just ignore it for now though.. But I'm terrified of birth and then there are the chances of having a c section of something goes wrong God forbid :/

I'm also 14 weeks but having the opposite. The moment I realised I was going to raise a baby in and out of my belly I consciously made the desicion that I trust my body a 100% and that everything will go perfectly well. It has given me incredible peace of mind :)

god forbid! hopefully we will be okay. i just keep telling myself itll all be worth it at the end @nani720

@miicat, i just read your profile. and omg home birth! youre such a brave woman. good for you! ill try to think with that mindset more often. good luck mama!

if you get the epidural you won't feel it. and it's not terrible until your water breaks and contractions pick up. I got the epidural with my first and didn't feel anything they even had to tell me when to push. my second I went to the doctor because it was very hard and uncomfortable to stand up found out I was 8.5-9 cm they only gave me the epidural to get my husband there in time. with my third no epidural only slightly uncomfortable until my water broke 25 minutes later iv pain meds to ease the back pain so I could go to the bathroom and one push she was here. I'm going the same route this time (if possible) your body was made for this and you'll be so happy once you hold your baby you forget about the pain

@2ndchancemommy, I am fully trusting and listening to my body and intuition. Doing so has never failed me :) Thank you for the kind words ❤ You'll do good, definitely start making positive affirmations daily it'll make a difference! Giving birth is a total surrender, find a way to enjoy being in total surrender and your fear will subside 😙

i did too but now after the ultrasound n knowing the sex and after feeling him kick, my fear has lowered a lot. i am scheduling a C-Section and have read tons of stories about them and i feel way more confident going that way.

I was scared but at this point I'm so ready to get it over with!!